Success story: My wife is pregnant after my surgery (Tauber Technique)
Hi. 38 y old here. On April 2026 i made this topic, where i talked about my surgery. Now I’m writing this post because I know there are people out there dealing with anxiety and pessimism just like me who need these kinds of stories—to keep hoping and believing that everything will be okay. If you are like me, I completely understand that it isn’t easy. Just thinking about these words brings back a wave of sadness, but please try not to lose hope. Keep moving forward, lean on your partner, and trust your doctors. It is not easy at all—I know, and I truly understand you. But I made it. And you can make it too, if you believe in it until the very end.
When I was going through my surgery and recovery, I spent hours scrolling through forums and drowning in medical studies. I took various supplements and researched endlessly to gain a sense of control, but it was a double-edged sword: while it gave me hope, it also heavily fueled my anxiety. I’m naturally someone who expects the worst outcome just to protect myself from disappointment.
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TL;DR: After 10 years and 2 recurrences (we weren's searching for a baby at that time), I had my 3rd varicocele surgery (Tauber Technique) in April 2026. Despite anxiety, pessimism, and obsessing over medical research/supplements, my wife tested positive just 2 months post-op! She is now 14 weeks pregnant. Finding doctors who actually listened made all the difference. There is real hope, even when you feel like expecting the worst.
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Our Timeline:
- Background: I had my first two varicocele surgeries 10 and 8 years ago, both resulting in recurrences. Since we weren't trying for a baby back then, I delayed further treatment.
- September 2025: My wife and I started trying to conceive. I started to take supplements (the most common you've already know if you're looking for a baby)
- April 2026: I underwent my 3rd surgery—this time using the Tauber Technique (Scleroembolization + Vein Ligation) on my left side.
- June 2026: Just 2 months post-op, my wife took a test and it was positive!
- Today (August 2026): She is officially in her 14th week of pregnancy, and everything is progressing smoothly.
What Helped Us Through:
- Finding doctors who listen: For someone who constantly overthinks and prepares for the worst, finding a medical team that actually listened and took my history seriously was my biggest blessing. Switching to the Tauber technique for my 3rd procedure made all the difference.
- Balancing research and peace of mind: Information and vitamins can help you feel proactive, but try not to let the research rabbit hole consume your mental health.
- Trusting the process: Facing a 3rd surgery was terrifying, but conception happened much faster than we or the doctors expected.
Thank you to everyone who supported my recovery posts four months ago. Feel free to ask anything about the procedure, recovery, or timeline. You've got this!