u/Correct_Jicama2655

I’m just thinking. I’m 37, I am constantly working out, getting needles stuck in my face, going to hair appointments, taking care of my skin, trying to expand my knowledge, trying to resolve my trauma on my own because therapy is too expensive, trying to be a good daughter/sister/friend girlfriend, trying new recipes, trying to learn different ways to make income. And men are doing what exactly? I don’t even see any benefit from it. I could have put all the money I have sunk into my looks into a 401k and just given up on men and my life would have been better for it. I feel like I am just stuck on this hamster wheel of trying to become the perfect woman but the way I’m treated by men never improves so what is the point?