Our wedding keeps coming up in random everyday moments and I didn’t expect that
I’m not even sure how to describe this properly, but I’ve noticed something kind of unexpected since getting engaged and starting to plan our wedding. It’s not the big planning moments that stand out, it’s how often it just randomly shows up in everyday life. We’ll be doing something completely normal like eating or watching something, and then one of us will suddenly remember a detail we haven’t really settled yet. Something small like seating, timing, or logistics, and then we end up briefly trying to figure it out before moving on again.
It’s not stressful exactly, more just surprising how it doesn’t really stay in a “wedding planning” box. It kind of follows you around in little moments you don’t expect. I guess I thought it would feel more separated from everyday life than it actually does.