How do you handle a sudden “no sex until marriage” setup after being together for almost 10 years?
Hey guys ask ko lang opinion niyo and feel free to criticize me kasi open naman ako sa self improvement. My gf and I have been together for almost 10 years and live in na kami for 3 years. Honestly throughout the relationship wala naman kami naging major issue sa sex life and masasabi ko compatible naman kami. Recently she’s turning 30 and decided na gusto niya muna ihalt yung sex until marriage. I respect her decision and naiintindihan ko naman saan siya nanggagaling. Ang problem ko lang is nahihirapan ako mag adjust kasi mataas talaga sex drive ko and yung kasal naman plano ko talaga siya pero realistically hindi pa agad, maybe within 2 years pa. Lately medyo bothered ako mentally kasi syempre magkasama kayo araw araw sa isang place and naturally naiisip ko yung intimacy and all that. Ayoko rin naman dumating sa point na magkaroon ng resentment or misunderstanding dahil dito. Sa mga naka experience ng similar situation especially long term/live in couples, paano niyo hinandle yung ganitong setup?