I 29F am in love with two people
I 29F met someone 33m unexpectedly and things took off fairly quickly. I fell for him a lot but it was the absolute WORST timing. I had just split with my ex 29M and it had only been 2 months, and I said this to the guy I’m now seeing. We both agreed to put it aside despite me telling him 10000 times that I am a strong believer it takes time to heal.
Well my ex came back, my ex that I do still love. It’s such a hard situation because I love him still but we ended so badly. For context, it was a push/pull dynamic and I left him in the end, but when I tried to go back he walked away (understandable).
Now I am in a situation where two men have told me they are in love with me, in the last 2 days. I feel overwhelmed and I want to just break it off with them both. If I am being true to myself my feelings are stronger towards the newer man, but it’s so hard.
I have no idea what to do, either way someone gets hurt including myself. Shall I just run from it all and go into ghost mode for a while?
I feel awful, the guy I met recently is the most genuine, sweet and attentive man, but I just can’t seem to let go of my ex. Also, my ex is doing everything he can to remind me of the good times. They both know about each other too which adds more complication.
Fml, I just don’t know what to do