Are there any men left who want to have a monogamous committed relationship, but who also have high libido? I (35f) have been dating over the past few years and have found that many men who want the traditional monogamous relationship, do not have high sex drives. On the other hand, I get lots of offers for fuck buddies or friends with benefits from guys who can keep up with me but don't want anything serious. I have a very high sex drive and need someone who can match that, but I am not into swinging or the kink community. I don't share.
I am also a widowed single mom who has 3 young kids, so I realize that does deter some men from wanting anything serious with me. But I am independent and not looking to mooch at all. I just want a best friend and life partner at some point again.
Are there still men out there who would love a monogamous relationship with lots of good sex?