I m26 live with my gf24 .
I do majority of chores for the house, I do all the dishes, I take out trash, I mop the floors and vacuum. I also do all my own laundry and all the towels and blankets. I fold all the laundry and put all the dishes away. I basically do everything but dust clean the cat box and sweep the floors which is usually done by my gf, she will help with other stuff but it’s like bare minimum, I also have to force her to do her laundry and pick her stuff up like I will have to yell at her sometimes for her to actually do something. I work full time, my gf doesn’t work but gets a $ amount a month.
I pay mine and my gfs phones and basically everything we have. She pays about 220 towards the bills and 300 for food monthly. I pay about 1200 monthly with bills and food.
In our daily life we play ps5 together and make crafts or go on walks from time to time cause that’s what she likes. We also go out to eat and go places not often but we do at least a few times a month. We often fight when I try to play the ps5 with my friends for even a 1-2 hours because she acts like I don’t love her or care about her. She starts saying I don’t enjoy myself when I play the ps5 with her. She also gets mad if we don’t have sex 2 times everyday. Which don’t get me wrong is great but it’s a hassle when she’s crying at midnight while I’m trying to sleep for a few hours before work after cooking cleaning and doing whatever she wanted for that day. And when I try to say hey babe I’m pretty tired, she then says I never wanted sex and I’m not attracted to her. Like I genuinely feel like in her mind my fuction is to go to work cook clean, take care of her needs and put it on her for hours through out the day with minimal sleep and do it with a smile. This all frustrates me a lot cause I feel like her doing more being home and not working should be normal. Cause If I was home I’d have the home spotless easily. So am I the asshole for expecting more from her and getting frustrated with her?