Hello I want to apologize beforehand. English isn’t my first language but I will do my best.
My sister and me(F) were raised together always in the same school the same circle of friend and cousins. We were raised in a way like everything that’s happening in the house stay in the house. Our parents always used to say that no matter what happens you don’t need to go tell neighbors, aunts, friends or grandparents.
So when i’m arguing with my twins or one of my sisters I don’t need to tell the whole world. For my twins sister it’s the opposite. Whenever she has the slightest disagreement with anyone in the house she has to call everyone to tell our business. She said she’s asking for opinions but like it’s weird. You don’t see her friend calling her everyday to tell how they argue with their family members but she has to ok.
The problem is that we have the same friends. Sometimes I learn out of nowhere that she said things behind my back or she records our fight and send the video to people. It’s always because of things like this we end up arguing.
The last straw was 2 months ago we were at a party I learn in front of everybody that she told people something that I only told her in the heat of a moment. ( it’s about a fight that I had with one of our friends. I’m not friend with the person anymore but she still is. I’m a 100% in the wrong and it’s ok ) It’s was so fucking humiliating cause why would you do that. When we came home I confront her and I told her she is vicious because why you are you telling people something that I told YOU. Like ok you’re telling our friends but like your my sister there is thing that I am telling you I will not necessarily tell other people even our closest friends.
Long story short we throw hands
She thinks the problem it’s that I was humiliated and I’m telling her that you can’t shut your mouth.
Since that day we haven’t spoke. It’s awkward because we have the same friends everyone knows that we are not talking and people are saying that I am overreacting.
I’m really starting to see her like an opps.
So AITAH ?