advice for newcomers?
hi!! i recently bought a second hand lolita dress online (nothing too fancy, quite cheap material actually) and i felt really pretty. i’m 16, and my parents have agreed to let me dress lolita! i have some questions about good websites, sizing, shipping and terms…
what are the good websites? i know about 42lolita, but are there any other good ones that ship internationally? i live in sweden and the lolita subculture here isn’t that big
should i buy my size here in sweden or order a size bigger? i know sizing can change between countries
what does it exactly mean when an item is pre order? if it says "pre order: 40 days" does that mean that the item will first be shipped after 40 days?
my feet hurt a lot due to hypermobility, is it wrong to be a little iffy about buying heels? i wanna be able to walk around without being in too much pain while still wearing the style correctly.
what exactly do all the acronyms mean? what is the difference between a JSK and a OP?
how strict is the subculture? can i wear things wrong?