u/Cravingmatcha

[18F 17M] Waiting for a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend, but he’s taking a while

I’ve been talking to this guy for a little over three months and we both have talked about wanting to be in a serious relationship together. However, I’m hearing about no progress being made when it comes to him asking me to officially be his girlfriend.

Ive been very clear about what I want—flowers and a nice gesture that shows that he wants to be my boyfriend. A month ago, he told me he would ask me out within a months time because of AP exams, which I agreed with cause we’re both very serious about our studies. We both finished our AP exams last week and now Im just waiting for him to ask me out. But I’m getting worried…last night he told me was starting a personal project…a STOCK project(don’t try to tell me that’s his coverup for him asking me out bc he’s genuinely being fr…when we were calling he was literally just studying stocks the whole time). Of course I’m supportive of his future, but I want to be part of his future and now I get the feeling that I’m not a priority.

I’ve explicitly told him “I’m ready, please ask me out officially soon”, but he keeps delaying it and now I’m getting antsy. I dont want to keep being pushed off and procrastinated like this. I dont even know what i want anymore because hes taking so damn long.

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u/Cravingmatcha — 9 days ago