M | 26 | Bahawalpur/Melbourne - hoping to find someone real in this rishta multiverse
I have been seeing rishta posts here for quite some time so thought maybe i should try my luck too.
Height & Weight: 5'8 79 kg
Location: currently living in melbourne originally from bahawalpur.
Education: I did bachelors in computer science from giki currently doing masters in australia because apparently one degree was not enough stress already.
Marital Status: single
Religion & Practicing:
I would say i am trying to improve myself religiously not extremely practicing at the moment but i do fast in ramadhan and genuinely believe religion brings a person closer to their creator. I do not really believe in sects although my family is sunni. I prefer researching and understanding things myself and following what makes sense to me.
Income Source:
Currently doing part time work while studying and alhumdulillah earning enough to manage things well.
Hobbies & Interests:
I enjoy watching movies and seasons love random late night drives and used to play online games a lot with friends before work life attacked everyone. I follow f1,cricket and sometimes football too. I also enjoy cooking which is one of the survival skills you unlock after living alone. I can pretty much handle all household chores myself and try to stay regular with gym as well.
Family Details:
I belong to a middle class saraiki speaking family. We are 3 brothers and 3 sisters 2 sisters are married and i am the eldest brother. Alhumdulillah both my parents are alive. Mother is a housewife and father runs a small business.
Requirements for a Partner:
Looking for someone who is willing to settle in australia since i plan to stay here long term i strongly believe marriage should be a partnership not a job description so i am not looking for someone just to cook and clean because honestly i can already do all that myself.
I value loyalty, care, modesty and emotional maturity. I would prefer someone educated ideally a doctor but not compulsory someone career driven who knows how to carry herself and communicate properly.
Looks do matter to me as attraction is important so i would prefer mutual picture exchange early on just to avoid wasting anyones time and awkward surprises later.
someone who can handle conflicts maturely without holding grudges and knows how to keep things light with humor.
also just to be clear i am completely against dowry and please dont expect huge amounts of gold money or unrealistic demands thats not the kind of marriage i believe in.
Ideally i would like a proper nikkah and wedding event with a decent manageable gathering and i will make sure to fulfil reasonable expectations from my side as well.
Bonus points if you love animals because future cat or dog plans are definitely on the table
Deal Breakers:
Narcissistic behaviour, lack of respect, dishonesty and excessive male friendships
Preferred Family Setup:
Nuclear preferably
Do You Want Children:
Yes but I think this should always be a mutual decision and honestly women should have more say in it because they go through much more physically and emotionally.
Timeframe for Marriage:
I would prefer taking around 2 to 3 months to properly understand compatibility and if things go well marriage within 1 to 2 years sounds reasonable.