u/Crazy-Charlie

How would you feel if you found out your significant other cheated on you like 10 years ago or even longer? Would it be the end or would you even care? I recently discovered my wife slept with her ex about a week after we first stated dating. It sucks for sure, but I don’t know how to deal with it. Part of me is like, oh well, I’m too old to care. But then I’m like, wait a minute. I feel like our whole relationship has been a lie. If I had found out back then we definitely would not be married right now.