27M chasing me 27F for a decade
Hi, im 27F in a bit of a confusing situation with a guy 27M. Our parents are family friends, im christian hes muslim and we usually see each other couple times a year. Well, when we were 17 we had a fling that lasted for like a week and i broke things off because we live in different countries and he was kinda cringe via messages. Almost every time after that when we saw each other and were single we made out, after that he would bore me on instagram i would tell him im not interested in anything serious because of the distance blahblah but for these 10 years he has been consistent in saying that im the love of his life, that he loves me and would do anything if i considered being his. Cute or creepy? This cycle was broken (or so I thought) last September when he came over here, we hung out nothing happened (i was taken) and it was the first time ever that we just had good time as friends but he did insist that he loved me and wanted me but he also respected my boundaries and tired nothing. He came over with his siblings this weekend because we were celebrating my younger sisters 18th, this time he has a girlfriend but also he was all over me. I didn’t let anything happen between us because im a girls girl and im very against cheating. Meanwhile for the whole three days he was like i will leave my girlfriend, you truly are the love of my life i can picture us having kids and living this life together. For some reason this time around his words did get to me and im very confused because if he is willing to cheat/dump his gf over me, wouldn’t he do the same to me? How do men’s brains work? Someone help? Opinions? Advice?
I of course will not do anything with him while he’s in a relationship but what if he breaks up because im supposed to go visit them in a couple of weeks???