u/CrazyElephantBones

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So I have this neighbor we have been hanging out with for over a year , I’m a SAHM in the summers and she had a strange work schedule (off 2 weekdays) so I would hang out with her and her kid with me and my kid quite a bit in the summers. Then she lost her job and got a new one and with that they decided to move in with her mom as a family 20 mins away. I’ve watched her dog, fed her cats, gone on play dates with her and her kid and everything just always seems to be her idea. I’m very go with the flow but my kid keeps asking about her kid and it’s getting awkward. Me and my kid are chill people , she is nice with other kids and I honestly don’t think anything happened??

She didn’t move yet but she started blowing me off like she already moved. It’s super weird. I’m just a little blown away bc she was the first mom friend that I made and I thought we were friends. Then ..: I had asked her if her and her kid would like to meet me and my kid at the park one day this week on Monday, she picked Tuesday then changed to Friday. Whatever. Then Friday morning rolls around and she texts me that she needs to buy a cake for his birthday so they’re not coming to the park …. Weird excuse but ok? Then I go on Facebook and she posts a ton of favors for a party we’re not invited to.

Should I say something or just be done with her and stop trying completely? I’m honestly a little blown away at how rude. This all started when she decided to move (20 mins away) it seems like she just forgot about me. :( I’m not really sure I want to be friends with someone like this anymore but I just want to make sure I’m not over reacting.

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u/CrazyElephantBones — 21 days ago