Wondering if my ex has BPD????
Still wondering if my ex has BPD. It runs in his family as his uncle had it...committed suicide. Our relationship was tumultuous. I felt like I was walking on eggshells with him most of the time as if anything was going on with his son, his job, his ex wife, politics...he would be catapulted to level 10. Lashing out angrily .... Aggressive, unable to handle regular conversations about anything that was difficult..Then the next minute he was loving, sending love songs , calling me his muse, buying me clothes, compliments....then it was name calling, shoving, snide remarks . If I questioned or disagreed with him it turned ugly and I was the difficult one. If I was going through a difficult time he called me miserable and told me I was making him miserable and I was the one making the relationship a rollercoaster.
It has been almost two months since the break up....we dated for two and half years. I am still questioning was it him or was it me.
What are the signs of someone with BPD? Are any of these them?