Girlfriend constantly assumes 29M 24F
together for almost 1 year) / i made it clear dozens of times that i dislike when she assumes my mood & intentions… nothing changes it seems. We had datenight lastnight and she spent a portion facetiming her friends and almost accepted plans & i addressed how she should of just texted them since we havent had a proper date night in awhile
I had to drive her to a store and it was closed so she found one that was open 10 mins away, i never made a face nor said anything i just put the address on GPS and she was like “oh are you mad now?” When i never did ANYTHING remotely close to making it seem like i was. I became silent and was more monotone cause the assumptions are exhausting… Alcohol was involved later that evening and i told her how i felt and she uses anxiety as an excuse. Now i suffer with terrible anxiety & i hold my tongue to avoid stuff like this…. Im tired mentally & emotionally but i feel like im exagerating. I would love some advice on what to do. I feel like im always changing & fixing myself for her but i rarely get it in return