Hello!! I hope this post is alright / fits this subreddit.
My partner and I have been discussing ENM/Swinging for a long time now. We have great communication, and are at a great spot in our relationship. The only problem at the moment is that we don't know really how to get into the scene and meet more like-minded people. Our current dynamic is that I like exploring as a couple, while he also likes the idea of going solo. (I have my own reasons for not doing things solo personally) We have been trying out different apps, specifically feeld, etc, and have been able to have a double date with another couple so far which went well! However other than that we haven't gotten much further.
I personally feel like though that we would do better with meeting people in person in some sort of socializing event as the apps are great and all but feel a little stressful just due to how modern apps are anyway.
How should we go about doing that? Any advice about that or apps or anything would be super appreciated
Neither of us have ever really done clubbing/raves/parties or whatever young adults in the movies do so we genuinely have no idea lol.