u/Creative-Emu9556

Hi!!

So I am a petite woman (4ft11) and I now lift weights 4-5 days a week. I am currently 106 lbs. I have built up muscle this past year.

It’s sooo frustrating. I see other women who post the same height and weight as me, or are even heavier, and their stomachs are so flat!!

I have built up significant muscle in my arms and lower body. But my tummy is sooo soft and big and makes it look like I don’t even work out.

Why is this?? I don’t think it’s just my short torso either. I’m seriously going to have to lose 15 more pounds of pure fat.

What am I doing wrong? I eat decent protein ( 70-90g daily. ) I know my core is weak and I need to work it consistently but I feel like there’s gotta be more to it than that as to why my belly is basically a squish mallow.

Hi!

I became good friends with this one girl. Super supportive of me, genuinely was there for me when I needed it. Fun, smart, great friend.

After she finally broke up with her ex who was genuinely so horrible to her, cheated on her, etc. She understandably took time to heal. And during that time she was in the dating pool, and met this one guy who told her he had a girlfriend. And my friend’s response was “Omg she can never find out” and then continued to go out with the guy for a bit…

When I found this out, I immediately distanced myself from her. I have no tolerance for cheaters nor being friends with one who willingly is a part of cheating.

It’s hard because apart from this she was genuinely a good friend and person. I understand hurt people hurt people. AIO for cutting her off basically?