u/Creative-Rub1956

So here lately I have sort of distanced myself from everyone and everything other than work. My fiance has talked to me like I wasn’t shit and saying I nag about this that and the third so I have just been quiet. Tonight he tells me the only reason he asked me to be his girlfriend to begin with was because I would help him work. I didn’t have a job at the time. I have a job I’ve been at for a year almost 2 years now, I’m not doing shit when I get off of work other than feed our dogs and make sure the house is clean. I work 8-9 hour shifts 5 days a week. He then proceeds to talk about how we haven’t had sex in a month. I keep telling him I can’t pretend to enjoy it when he is treating me like shit and talking to me like I’m not shit, he’s saying it’s true what everyone says when you get married apparently you don’t get much sex??? I tell him I’ve literally thrown my mental health on the line for him. Last year I was pregnant and we were in an argument I told him I was probably pregnant and he said he hoped the baby died. Guess what happened a few weeks later?!? I lost my fucking baby. It took forever to forgive him and actually be comfortable again. I just feel as if he’s not even thinking about what I do anymore. Says he feels like I don’t love him etc etc. I think I’m starting to detach because this shit isn’t it.