u/CrimeSpirit

When you say "i mirrored your behavior back to you and you didn't like it" thats just an excuse to treat someone badly and use their behavior as the excuse. The truth is, if you do this you're not mirroring anything at all. You're just being you and placing the blame on the person you're doing it to. Its a sign you're not ready for accountability or true intimacy. I used to do this. And it was also done to me. Since it doesnt reflect who i feel that i am inside I stopped doing it. I had to look at my behavior and stop making excuses. I dont tolerate this behavior in myself or others now.