Partners terrible with money f31 and he’s m30
So we’ve been together like 8 years 2 kids, I am F31 and he’s M30 but this man drains my soul atm he’s a brilliant dad but he’s so I hate to say the word stupid especially with money, the man’s got 2500 grand debt lied to me about how much debt he was in and just no drive in him to get himself out of debt I am actually sick of it the only thing he pays is electric, the odd takeaway and I literally pay everything else holidays, clothes, rent, kids dinners, childcare and I’m just about fed up with being his bloody mother he sits on his phone from he gets home from work and just about gives you a word of conversation when you finally drag it out of him, I don’t want to break up but this is where I feel we are heading I want to buy a house and be settled my finances are absolutely fine and I’ve sent him money to clear some debt but I dunno. I just want a rant cause I feel like I can’t deal with this anymore but ultimatums don’t work… does anybody have any advice ?