Relationship issue and family issue
So me person A im of age 20 now ,i was in a rltnshp with a guy B when i was 13 years old and he was too we were in 7th standard .basically he was my first love and i was his first love ..at tht time i didnt have any fancy phone etc..i had nokia of my mother on which i used to have facebook and we talked there ..everything was going well and my mother had a doubt about it ..and she took the phone frm me for 2 days ..i couldn't txt him..but at tht time i was going to tution for studies ..and there one guy was appraoching me but i didnt accpt it ...ofc ..why would i ..i loved my boyfrnd ..but as i told u i didnt have phone for 2 days..but there was a girl i told her to take my account and txt him about this situation ..and tht account was with my boyfrnd too ..but idk someone txtd tht guy who approached me tht lets meet tmrw i have a gift fr u etc..but clearly i didnt do jt ..and tht txt was saw by my boyfrnd ..and when i tlked to him he said u txtd this guy etc etc..which i didnt ..so i told him to believe me etc..and i was a shy girl i didnt even ask tht girl about it ..and i was constantly in thought tht who did it ..my boyfrnd or tht girl ..after tht my boyfrnd acted like he believed me ..but in real he didnt ..and after tht he cheated me with a girl and was crazy about her ..and i became very depressed ..but in 9th standard he came back ..asked for forgiveness and blamed me for his cheating and said tht i thought u were the one who txtd tje guy etc..all misunderstanding clear..but he cheated me.witj the same girl again ..and i left him for about 4 years ..no contact nothing ..he strted another relationship meanwhile with other girl "xyz" and was with her for 4 years ..after tht he came back yo me agaim ..i was very firm tht i wont accept him now etc
But he manipulated me and i got back with him again...bcox he seemed kind to me ..and we had been for 2 months ..and he cheated me with tht 4 year girl ..acted nonchalant..and i disappeared once again....after months this year he came back and blamed me again said someon3 told me tht she (me) is with someone else etc..thts y he got back with her 4 year girl ..but now he got to know tht it aint true so he came back..i told him tht u are with ur ex ..how can we strt a rltn..he told me no we arent ..but his ex is toxic..i asked her..she said yes we r in a rlnsp..but this boy showed me the chats were they brokeup and werent together ..and told me we were just actimg at our last brkup..bcox his ego got hurt tht i cheated him which i dindnt..and now he cried ..asked for forgiveness..and told me tht it all was misunderstanding..lets have a new beginning..but i told him tht ur ex why isnt she telling the truth thn..i asked her ex to send recent chats in which they tlked ..but she didnt and instead strted fighting with me ..this time i fought back too..i was just asking her for proof which i can show this guy 'B'
.but she instead strted a fight..so i got back with my ex..thinking tht they aint in a rltnshp..we were all happy ..he changed ..he started praying ,stopped havinh cigarette..asked for consent and eveytbing like behaved like a green flag..so my family is strict ..now my ex and i gone for a picnic and someome called my father sayimg tht your girl is with this guy ..she came blw these two ..etc etc..and my father was like.i trust her she wont do it etc..they sent him photos of me and him..and it was a very serious embarrassing situation i wanted to kill myself ..but my father didnt do anythimg..but took my phn etc..i had my books with my ex or boyfrnd we can say..i told him frm my sisters snapchat to return it to my sister etc..this talk was blw just us 3 ..my sister me and him ..and when my sister gone to take tht..someone again called my father saying tht he is going to return books..i was shocked ..and i asked him did u tell this to your ex ..he said no...and sweared on his dead father..but i k my sister wont tell this either..i thought maybe his phn linked to his ex..thts why she is doing this..but he declined this too ..and i asked him who is the guy whos sending my ftaher our photos etc..he said he is his exs cxnn..and she is doimg it ..after our separation ..i told him ill wait for you wnd he said yes ill try my best etc..but he got back with her ex..when i asked h3 said he is just tryn to side her frm our rltnshp..hows it posisble to side her by being with her
So my qstn is
Should i wait for him or leave him
2nd one is tht who could possibly tell about th3 book situation
3rd is..tht is he involved in this whole situation ..like sending my father photos etc
4th is ..is he really tryn to get away frm her permanently, and will be with me in future ?
TL;DR my post is about my ex and my on off thing ,in which my family was involved and i dont know who did this my ex or his ex..and im completely confused about this whole situation tht should i stay or leave and never let him come in my life and how do i know the whole situation tht who did this to me ..