42 [F4M] Virginia/DMV - looking for the Ben to my Leslie
I’ve tried all the dating apps at various points in time and they just haven’t really worked for me. So, I figured I would try this in the hope that maybe I would meet someone simpatico.
I’m 42 and based in Virginia. I work full-time in an office job that I like (but if I won the lotto, I’d definitely be out). :D
Aside from being childfree and wanting the things that are important in relationships (communication, emotional intelligence, shared values, honesty), the thing that is most important to me is finding someone who has a good sense of humor/loves witty banter and understands sarcasm. I joke that my love language is memes. I love to laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time.
About me:
- 5’6.5” (had to add that half lol ), spiritual, left-wing, childfree, non-smoker, don’t do drugs, drink socially, plant-based, cat lover (allergic to dogs).
- Love going to comedy clubs, musicals/plays/live performances of any kind, grabbing dinner with friends, going to a happy hour every so often, reading, a good binge-watching session, kayaking, sitting out on a patio when the weather is lovely, going to veg fests and having friends over for dinner and game nights.
- As an introvert/ambivert, I love my alone time. I love being at home and enjoying my own company. I like to play violin, listen to music while I cook and just relax with some tasty food and a good show at the end of a long day.
- I’ve reached that age where I’m feeling a little restless. I have a good career, fabulous friends, a place that I love, etc. However, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t feeling ready for a new adventure. I’m seriously considering a change of locale. I’m ready for a new challenge and if the right job opportunity presented itself, I’d definitely be up for a move (even though moving is the WORST). Ideally, I’d like to live in DC or move back up North (I love Philly and Boston. Would love to hear your thoughts on these places if you’ve ever lived in them.)
- An abuser of “lol” in text messages. With that said, I much prefer sending voice notes or having a good, old-fashioned conversation in-person or on the phone.
- My goal (which I am always starting tomorrow) is to start working out and get back in shape. If you used to hate exercising and now love it, I’d love to hear your tips.
I’m looking for:
- A serious long-term and monogamous relationship. I am not interested in hearing from anyone that is looking for hook-ups or short-term situationships.
- 35-47 (ish) male, childfree.
- US-based, preferably Northeast or Mid-Atlantic.
- Non-smoker and no drugs. Not a heavy drinker.
- Politically left and not super religious.
- Someone emotionally available, kind, honest, mature, communicative, similarly independent, and knows what they want. Someone who has a real interest in meeting in-person and going on dates.
- Someone that enjoys learning and is curious about the world. Someone that enjoys deep conversations.
What I would love to know:
- If you could change one thing about our country right now, what would it be?
- If the apocalypse happened tomorrow, what is one skill that you have that would aid in our survival?
If this sounds like you, feel free to send me a DM with a bit about yourself and a picture or two.
Thanks!