r/cf4cf

Hey everyone :)

Taking the courage and shooting my shot here! I’m looking for someone who is also interested in a long-term relationship. I live in NY, southeastern part. I am about a 50-minute MTA ride from the city.

Some things about me! I love live music. I will take any chance I get to travel into the city for a concert. My favorite genre of music is pop punk/punk rock/hardcore 🤘🏻 I also really love karaoke, so have your singing voice ready to go. I will take any chance to hang with my friends. I will impulsively say yes to any plans before giving it a thought. Trying new restaurants is my jam. I also lean pretty left/progressive, so hoping that we align politically.

I can also be a homebody. I love to play video games on my downtime. Currently, World of Warcraft has occupied my time. Anyone else excited for WoW Forever?? I just love to cozy up on the couch with a blanket and binge-watch shows.

I have a dog and cat that I absolutely adore. Tucker is my 8-year-old golden retriever, and Apollo is my 7-year-old cat.

I am looking for someone between the ages of 30-40. The tri-state area would be cool, but I am also not opposed to another state (or country!) if the connection is right.

I’m looking forward to meeting new people!! :)

🌸Trying this again :) This isn’t my first time posting here, but I’m hoping this time it’ll be a little more positive and drama-free🌸

I’m from Minnesota currently, but open to explore what’s around. I love ice skating, movies and going to the theater, video games (although I’m not looking for gaming buddies 😅), arts & crafts, long walks, psychology, and true crime.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty independent, straightforward, and selective. I value honesty a lot and I’d much rather talk about the things that actually matter than spend weeks making small talk just to eventually discover we’re completely incompatible.
I’m looking for someone around 21–33 and 5’10”+. Emotional intelligence and maturity are really attractive to me. I’d love someone who can communicate openly, has goals and ambitions of his own, and generally knows what he wants out of life.
And since I don’t like wasting anyone’s time, here are the big compatibility things right away:

Childfree means childfree. No kids now, no kids later, no “maybe someday.” I don’t want children in any shape or form.
No addictions, including weed/420.
No dogs. I’m a cat person and don’t want to live with dogs.
No religion. I’m looking for someone non-religious.
No Republican/conservative views. Our values need to be compatible.
Please send/includef a photo. Physical attraction matters to me, and I’m not interested in talking anonymously for days before finding out what each other looks like.

Thank you!

Hello community. I got snipped at age 29.

I'm 6'2 and roughly an hour from Denver (open to LDR if there are direct flights to West/South West States)

I'm a non-smoking Liberal and agnostic.

Professionally and personally, fitness is central to my life. You’ll usually find me in the gym early in the morning or training for my next 10K. But I’m equal parts homebody and traveler. I've traveled to 27 countries across Europe and Asia so far, with South America queued up next. I love traveling for events, live comedy shows, concerts, or just lounging somewhere tropical with white wine or a spa day.

I believe self-care routines should be mandatory for everyone and I stock Bath & Body Works seasonal candles like a Costco sale. I'm really into horror movies, fine dining, board games, and the occasional competitive bingo night. I like to catch NBA, WNBA and NFL games live too!

I’m looking for an active, independent empath (roughly 27–37) who is looking for someone to complement peace, stability, and mutual support within their life. Good communication and a calm approach to conflict resolution are huge green flags for me.

Bonus points if you share my kink of sending Pinterest recipes that you'll never have the intention of creating. Or when you finally spend the money, time, and effort recreating it, you're filled with nothing but disappointment.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me what's your story? Let me know your top travel destination or the last horror movie that actually made you sleep with the door closed. Platonic friendship DMs are always welcome :)

*Edit - Open to trying LDR! Hard to find other unusual people close to me!

**Edit two - You can tell by how disorganized all this is that my mind is a swirling mess I'm 24 not 25. I don't know why I keep doing that 😭🙏

***Edit three 💀 I'm vegan for the animals! I know it's not everyone's thing but I'd love to still talk to those of you who are open to talking to me!

Hello!! I'm N! I'lll get the physical stuff out to way so we can get to the other things!!

5'7, bright hazel eyes, healthy weight! Going to the gym six days a week! But I'm not at all a gym bro 🤢 I am working as a barista until I find different work!!

In terms of my personality some women have called me cute or adorable, so I'd say I probably have that golden retriever personality! INFP! I'm someone who HIGHLY values emotional safety/health/communication. I going to therapy again soon and I'm excited about that!!!

I have also been told I'm funny quite a bit, but my humor is freaking weird. Lot of stemming involved. Currently on a "What da dawg doin" kick.

I care deeply about nature and am the kind of person to take spiders outside instead of killing them. Like the title says, I'll probably rattle off bird facts (or birth facts as I like to call them) to you every time we are outside 😂

I also really love Minecraft!!! If you have it please go on an adventure with me on my realm 🥺
Music and my art is one of the most important things to me as well! I'd love to share it with you!!

ALSO I have undiagnosed ADHD and I keep figuring out how much of my life it seems to impact!

I'm a very affectionate person! I love all the hugs and kisses and cuddly stuffs :DDD

*About You*

I would prefer a photo swap at your comfort level! Mutual attraction is important to me!

Curious about the world

Affectionate

Open Minded

Always looking to improve themselves

Moral

Healthy-ish eating habits! Normal BMI prefered!

Ambitious

20-30 (If you're outside the scope and still fit the bill shoot me a shoot)

I prefer artsy or nerdy type people! I'd also prefer if we shared something in common! MC, Nature, Music, Art - that kind of thing :D

I love highly detailed responses! The longer the better! I could have made this way longer, but I feel like I scared people off last time I tried a long one.

Hello! Been a part of the childfree subreddit for years and never realized there was an r4r page for people like us.

Haven’t wanted kids in 12 years and haven’t doubted my decision since. However, dating with this requirement is… unpleasant, to say the least. So maybe I’ll find my person here.

I’m 29 and from the Philadelphia suburbs, but am open to an LDR for the right person. Natural redhead, 5’3”, on the plus size side of body types while actively losing weight with a bunch of lifestyle changes. Tattoos and piercings are a thing for me.

I’m more of a creative girly. Writing is my passion, and everything that comes along with it - reading, music, art. I’m also super big into Renaissance fairs so expect to be dragged out to one in costume. I’m a bit of an audiophile, and with that I prefer phone calls and little voice notes over texting while getting to know someone.

Though I’m pretty introverted naturally, once I’m comfortable with someone, I’m basically 3 raccoons in a wig and trench coat. I live for some chaos.

Why we may not click:
• I practice a spiritual craft. This tends to cause conflicts with most organized religions and their views.
• I am outspokenly progressive. If you are conservative, I will most likely only piss you off.
• I would prefer so have kink involved with my future partner, so if you prefer to stay “vanilla” no hard feelings.
• I have pets, specifically two cats and will want more as time goes on.

If you are interested I’d love to hear from you. Please tell me about yourself, including your age, and what pokemon you would be.

First off no offense to the guys but I’m only interested in women! Now that’s out of the way let’s get to the fun part…my name is Rachel and I’m 33 years old (soon to be 34 in October.) I’m a cheerful, bubbly introvert with a great sense of humor who’s an old fashioned romantic. In terms of appearance I’m 5”4 1/2 and have a curvy hourglass figure with fair skin, dark eyes and long curly black hair. (There’s also a ton of pictures of me on my profile in case you’re curious what I look like 😉) What I’m looking for is the real deal…a long term committed monogamous relationship that would preferably lead to marriage. My passions include travel, reading and writing, collecting and modeling vintage and modern clothing, studying history and visiting historical sites, attending classic and contemporary film showings, and spending time with the LOML- my poodle mix Tommy Pickles. Politically I’m a democratic socialist so I’m very left leaning and staunchly anti-MAGA. Important note about me: I don’t have children and I’m not interested in having any and I’m looking for a woman who’s childfree also. P.S. I generally consider myself femme4femme…femme and high femme girlies skip ahead of the line 💖

Hi there, my name is Amy.

Nutshell: I'm looking for a long lasting connections that is mostly online, with no sexual components until a proper, emotional bond has been established.

Details:

- also looking for friends that I can one day live with in lieu of a life partner, like a platonic, poly setting regardless of gender, sexuality, etc

- for now, a cyber relationship is best as I am painfully awkward in person. Until I feel comfortable to do so, I would love to spend time together on call, video call when we know each other better, and even watch movies together on discord, if you're down.

- if you're confused about demisexuality, it simply means that I can't do the tango under the covers unless my heart has a stiffy for you first. That can take some time, as I struggle with emotional intimacy, so I hope you like a good slow burn.

About me - I am agnostic, Nigerian Irish, and currently working as a catering assistant to pay bills and save to move out - or even move country. I am against war, discrimination of any kind, and I'm left leaning.

- I also studied Theology in college so I love discussing the bible in terms of its stories and poetry.

- I am a singer, but am ironically pursuing a career in librarianship, and plan to do the masters next year when I've saved up enough.

-I am a dog/animal lover, so hopefully you are too!

- I love musicals, and Disney movies. I also love shows like Game of Thrones, AKOSK and HOTD.

- please be between 22-28, be kind, respectful, and detailed if you want to reach out! I will not be responding to one liners.

Thanks for reading!

California transplant so no cool accent(sorry). Love being active, but live a good lazy day as well. Love being goofy and cutting jokes, but not a non serious guy. Really would enjoy someone that loves sports as well and loves to laugh. Love to travel so open to other areas as well 😎

Imagine waking up to mountain views, coffee outside the van, and nowhere in particular you need to be. Sounds pretty great, right?

I'm 39 and living full-time vanlife in the AZ area at the moment. I love scenic campsites, campfire cooking, light hikes, photography, and cozy movie nights while rain taps on the roof. As much as I love this lifestyle, I'd love to find someone to share the adventures, spontaneous detours, and little moments with.

My current copilot is Tux, my harness-wearing cat who loves exploring campsites and insists breakfast happens at 6 AM. He's a great travel buddy, but his conversation skills could use some work. 😸

I'm hoping to meet a kind, independent, outdoorsy, animal-loving woman (26+) who's also childfree. Maybe you're already living on the road, maybe you dream about it, or maybe you're just looking for something genuine with someone a little outside the ordinary.

No pressure to pack your bags tomorrow. Let's talk, see if we click, and go from there.

Tell me your dream place to wake up tomorrow, your favorite camping spot, or introduce me to your pet. Tux and I are looking forward to meeting you!

Hi everyone,

I’m an active guy based in Indianapolis who values faith, fitness, and living intentionally. I know exactly what I want in a partner and a future, so I’m posting here to find someone on the same page.

Fitness & Outdoors:
I take my health and wellness seriously. I stay active split between my local gym and my home workout setup, try to eat well, and love spending time outdoors—whether that’s riding bikes on trails or just relaxing outside with a great view.

What I’m Seeking:
A practicing Christian woman who stays fit, values her health, is strictly child-free, and wants a high-intent, long-term relationship.

Where I Stand on Kids:
100% child-free. I’ve had a vasectomy, so my decision is set. Looking forward to using that freedom and extra income to travel and build an awesome life with my future wife.

Drop a message in my DMs if you think we’d be a great match!