r/cf4cf

Hi! I'm 40 years old and live in Fort Worth, Texas. I'm an ambivert and I can be shy at first depending on my comfort level. I do love to talk and send memes....although my remote job makes me feel like I'm losing the art of conversation sometimes lol.

About me: obviously I have no desire to have children. I love music, reading (love audiobooks), podcasts (true crime nerd), movies/tv. I love travel and take a few trips every year. Over the past 2 years I've fell in love with Hawaii - I've been twice (Oahu and Big Island). I'm a die hard Dallas Stars fan and can't wait for the season to start.

I love trying new restaurants, sushi and Mexican food are some of my faves. Love going out for drinks with friends, I'm a big fan of margaritas! I have a senior dog and a cat. While I crave a romantic relationship, I also value my independence and alone time

I love a fun debate and I have an opinion on almost everything. But my friends say that I'm very chill and relaxed. I'm an optimist and generally have a sunny disposition. I am drawn to people that are similar

I'm not religious but don't mind someone that is moderately religious. I consider myself politically moderate. I feel very strongly about women's reproductive rights

What I'm looking for: a straight, childfree man between the ages of 28-50. I'm 5'5" and I'm attracted to men that are at least a bit taller than me and in somewhat decent shape.

I have a strong preference for someone local in the Dallas/Fort Worth area although I could be open to someone in other parts of the US if the connection is right.

I'm not interested in a relationship with anyone outside of North America. I also have no plans to relocate from Dallas/Fort Worth. I love to travel so it would great to meet someone that would like to (and can afford to) take a one week trip at least once a year (open to domestic and international travel- prefer you have your passport!)

Ultimately I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who enjoys life, respects independence, communicates well, and is excited to build something meaningful together

DMs: Send me basic info about yourself (age, location, occupation, hobbies). Once i accept the message, you can send me a few pics (face and body). If you're outside of DFW, let me know your interest and ability to travel to my area

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old woman living in downtown Chicago. I’m 5’0”, petite/slightly curvy, brunette, child-free, and work in tech. I have two degrees and consider myself pretty independent, but I’m also very much a relationship-oriented person and would like to eventually get married and build a life with someone.

A few things about me: I have a small dog who I absolutely adore, I cook quite a bit (especially South Asian food), and I’m currently learning Hindi. I’m pretty low-key and enjoy simple things such as trying new restaurants, cooking at home, self care, reading, trying different cafes, sharing a laugh, exploring the city, connecting and spending time with friends, and just having someone to share everyday life with.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 29–35, ideally in Chicago or the surrounding suburbs. I have a preference for South Asian/Indian men.

Ideally, you’re educated, have a solid corporate career, are at least 5’5”, and are looking for marriage rather than something casual. I’m also hoping to find someone who genuinely likes dogs, has goals for his life, and is affectionate. I tend to show and receive love through words of affection and acts of service, so someone who appreciates those things too would probably be a good fit.

More than anything, I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and easy to be around. Someone who wants to build something together, enjoys the little things, and still believes your partner should also be your best friend.

A few things that are important to me for compatibility: I’m not a good match with someone who smokes cigarettes, drinks heavily, uses recreational drugs heavily, spends most of their free time gaming, or has an extremely sedentary lifestyle. I’m also looking for someone who plans to stay in the U.S. long-term. I’m also left-leaning and agnostic/non-religious, and would prefer someone who is generally on the same page when it comes to values and lifestyle.

If this sounds like you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I have also included 2 recent photos of myself below (taken the last 3 months or so).

hi.

I haven't put much effort in putting myself out there for a couple years, but I do want to try and see if I can find a girlfriend before the year is over.

I'm 5'6" light skinned black guy from the third ward area in Houston, Texas. By day I work at Target and by some nights, I'm a DJ. In the next five years, I definitely want to be a full-fledged content creator who makes six figures or own my own club/bar. Whichever comes first.

I am blind in one eye due to a cornea transplant. I'm deaf in my left ear and partially deaf in my right.

What I look for in a partner is someone who has a lot of patience! I can't stress this enough. If you're very superficial or just don't like hearing the word "wait" or "hold on" then we won't get along. I like to take my time with things and I want someone who is willing to take their time with me. Why the rush?

Considering that I'm light skinned, ideally, I would very much like to date a hispanic or Asian woman, but I don't discriminate. Bonus points if you're black and creole like me!

I very much filter out anyone who doesn't match my body type (sorry!) I am looking for someone who is fit and would be willing to let me go to the gym with them. I find the prospect of becoming fit because my parter motivated me to do so very intriguing. I'm more on the skinny and slender side, but I'd like to change that.

Age range should be around 24-40.

Let ACTUALLY go on dates! I feel like I've never been on one. Let's do Top Golf or go to one of those sit down painting events.

I don't plan on having children at all. My parents don't like that I've made this choice in my life, but I don't care.

Hi! I’m a 30F, living in EU, and I’m genuinely ready to build a life with someone.

I’m a dreamer at heart. I love books, astronomy, travelling, hiking, running, staying active, and long conversations that somehow turn into 2am conversations. I’m also the kind of person who can get ridiculously excited about planning a trip, finding a beautiful hiking route, or learning something completely random about the universe.

I’ve been through a lot, but somehow I’ve held on to my eternal optimism. Right now, I’m building a business, training for my first half marathon, and hoping to see much more of the world next year.

What I’m looking for

I’d love to meet someone kind, emotionally intelligent, communicative, financially responsible, and genuinely ready for a relationship.

I’m not looking for games, situationships, or months of “let’s just see where this goes.” I’d like to meet someone who is dating with intention and ultimately wants marriage, family, and a life built together.

I’m particularly drawn to a man with provider energy, not necessarily in a traditional sense, but someone who naturally thinks, “I’ve got you. We’ll figure it out.” Someone who supports his partner’s dreams, celebrates her successes, and wants to build a stable, loving life together.

And I want that to go both ways. I want to be the person who says, “You take care of me, I’ll take care of you.”

I come from a liberal, open-minded family, so I’d ideally like someone with a similar outlook.

Distance isn’t a dealbreaker. I’m open to relocating and would be happy to consider someone who is too. What matters more to me is that we’re both serious enough to make the effort to meet — even if that means getting on a plane.

Ideally, I’d like to date with the intention of settling down within a year or so. Not because I want to rush a relationship, but because I know what I’m looking for and don’t want to spend years in something without direction.

A little about me:

• 30F, Christian / Spiritual
• Based in EU
• Love travelling, books, astronomy, hiking & nature
• Currently training for my first half marathon 🏃‍♀️
• Building my own business
• Love exploring new places and planning trips
• Liberal/open-minded
• And apparently I’m incapable of listening to music without dancing around the house 😂

Childfree by choice.

What I bring to the table:

Emotional maturity
Sincerity & kindness
An awesome playlist
Your personal trip researcher
Your unofficial personal stylist
Someone who will genuinely cheer for your dreams
And your personal entertainment — I dance A LOT at home 😂

If you’re also looking for something serious and think we might be compatible, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. :)

Tomorrow is my birthday (37!) and I’d love to start my next solar rotation with a new connection. :)

I’m a complex and uncomplicated late-thirties woman who knows who she is and what she wants. I value community, clarity, and authenticity above all else. My energy is warm and all-encompassing; I need someone grounded and steady, who can remain true to himself and not lose sight of his own needs in my presence.

A performer by trade, I crave a partner who can be both my biggest fan and my muse. But he should also be the one I can stop performing for: the one I take off the mask around and am completely naked/vulnerable with. 

I’m fairly extroverted (ENFP), but my energy gets seriously drained by prolonged exposure to extroverts, so I am absolutely looking to partner with someone more introverted. 

I have a very precise, direct way of speaking, and delivery too blunt for men who prefer women engrained in apology culture. Maybe it’s because I didn’t get a cell phone til college, but I sound like a robot @$$hole over text, so I prefer calls by a landslide. And in the occasional silence, with the right one, it shouldn't feel awkward.

I have strong intuition which I trust implicitly. I follow astrology, Ayurveda, and moon cycles. I am also a fatalist, so I believe our path is laid out already; we just follow along. When I get frustrated with the cards I feel I’ve been dealt, the idea that what is happening is what is meant to happen eases my mind.

I am childfree, smoke-free, and pet-free. I want a partnership that can travel unencumbered at-will, save for a plantsitter. I've traveled extensively, lived abroad, and want to explore even more now, in my prime, not my retirement.

So if you are someone

• patient, generous, dependable, forthcoming, tolerant, funny (to me!)
• willing to take initiative, and well-versed in taking care of yourself
• with a life purpose, a personal style, and a sense of fiscal responsibility
• who thinks confidence is sexy, and
• wants to bask in my shining light, not try to dim me

 

Then you’re it for me!

*10,000 bonus points if our partnership can result in a Schengen Zone visa as I have serious dreams of moving to Italy perché parlo la bella lingua e mi manca il bel paese. :)

Happy to share pics via DM, but I’m a 5’4”/163cm radiant, gem-eyed, busty, well-dressed Italian-Polish American with a sunkissed brunette wavy mane and an excellent sense of style. Drop a comment that will make me want to DM you? Because you won’t be able to. If I don't reply it's likely because I'm busy hosting my Sparkle Party...

Hello!

Regardless of intention, starting a reddit account in hopes of finding someone tracks as a little dire, doesn't it? I'm in a new place over the past year, however, and want to find something that is not only tangible but delicate and soothing to the touch.

I'm 37, grew up in Ohio (my current location) and have spent the past fifteen years in fifty or sixty countries and all fifty states. I've had one backpack and my guitar, one-way tickets, and thoughts of the unknown for most of it.

I've been a semi-professional musician at times, I've published one novel. There's more to come but in lieu of inspiration I am presently stuck in the sludge of the Midwest! I'm finishing grad school right now in hopes of finding an asynchronous remote job to remove the hassle of bad employers, work visas (etc) that I've always had to navigate.

I'm looking for long-term. I don't have and absolutely do not want children (for many reasons, personal and political). I've never been married. There have been women of course but I'm unsure that I've ever truly been in love. Maybe once, a doubt even when typing this probably tells me the truth in that capacity.

I enjoy natural beauty, not masks. I'm genuine and expect the same. I don't play the power game, I want equality and respect on every level. I think that we label ourselves too much and this is restrictive, we are beings making choices constantly and don't need to be recognized for this. We make the best decision we can (at the time) with the information we had in that moment, the bigger issue is whether or not you have the ability to grow afterward. The past is gone, the present is now. Tomorrow isn't promised, so be here with me. In it. Age? I don't even think about it.

Location goes back and forth. I spent four years in Australia and wanted to live my life there. For the right person, I would. In saying that, for the right person I would live anywhere. I back myself and can make it work, I always have. Being home in the USA is comforting in some ways, and only confirmation of why I left in the first place in others.

I spend a lot of time riding motorcycles, writing, reading, and exploring. I cook most meals as I can do better than restaurants... I'm a pretty quiet and contemplative person, I don't need a big circle or constant activity to fill my time.

I most definitely forgot something, and other questions may have been aroused within! That's the point of sending me a chat:)

Anyway, looking forward to speaking with... you...

Hello! I'm L, a wasian 30 year old from Philadelphia, born and mostly raised here and I'm ready to find my other half :)

Things about me:

- I work from home and I have my own place.

- I have 2 cats that are my world. You can see pics of them on my profile.

- Homebody, but I love going out with friends. Either watching my friends compete at TCG/gaming tourneys or going to cons.

- Video games are my main hobby, but I also workout, gunpla, and whatever I end up hyperfixating on for the week! My currency fixation this week is collecting pokemon plushies.

-I usually play Arpgs like Path of Exile, but I also dabble in fighting games, used to mythic raid in wow, and used to compete professionally in a moba! I used to fly all over the US playing video games for a living.

- I love to sing, and while i'm into all types of music, my main genres are rnb, rap, metal, and any type of EDM esque song. Don't be surprised if you hear Twisted by Keith Sweat, then Bye Bye Bye one second, then Custer from Slipknot to They reminisce over you by Pete Rock and CL Smooth. Music is just awesome.

- Introverted but I can spark up the crowd if needed until my battery runs out.

-420 friendly.

Relationship / personality:

- I'm a private person. I used to be super into social media but I prefer keeping a lower profile these days.

- I'm a pretty positive person and i'd prefer my partner to be similar. I try to make sure everyone has a good time.

-I'll try almost anything at least once. Spleunking is a hard no, I’ve seen too many bad stories lol.

-Communicative. I don't like letting things fester and I am all about open communication in a civilized matter. No arguing, no raising of voices. Just two people trying to work out issues together as a team.

-Open-Minded.  I am someone who will hear all sides fairly and I am usually the one who mediates discussion in my friend groups since I'm impartial.

-I love to laugh and I don’t mind making myself look like an idiot to get a laugh out of you! Like Naruto running through the parking lot at top speed..

What I'm looking for:

- Kinda like Borat, I am trying to find my wife. I haven't dated in years and I've gotten to understand who I am pretty well and would prefer someone ready to settle down as well.

- Joint responsibility. I don’t mind taking charge and it’s usually the default for me in my social circle, but I’d love for someone else who likes taking charge on occasion.

- Passion. I love when someone can gush to me about the thing that makes them enjoy life. Tell me all about your favorite hobby, tell me every little detail, even if you think it’s stupid. I wanna know it all.

- Chill vibes. I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells with someone I love. I'm a pretty laid back person and tend to go with the flow.

Politics:
-  Not political but I am for human rights and woman's rights.

Religious:
- I'm Agnostic. While I have Buddhist roots, I really don't know what's out there and I don't think any human really will. But it's super fascinating to talk about and learn about all religious backgrounds.

I am looking for -
- Anyone between 28 - 37

- Someone emotionally available and ready to take things slow to really get to know each other!

- Not allergic to cats

- Someone kind and open-minded.

Thank you for reading! If you're interested at all, please send me a chat with a passion or something you're working on and a picture of yourself! I believe physical attraction is important, especially if I'm going to be with you for the rest of my life! If you aren't interested, no worries at all. Thank you for reading anyways and I hope to talk to you soon. :)

Salam :) I am looking to get married to a practicing muslim man who is CF. I work as a water resources engineer, and am a homebody that loves baking, reading, cuddling with my cats and being cozy. On the flip side, I do have an adventerous side and love hiking, traveling, trying new foods and experiences and trying to live my life to the fullest. I like to think everyone's life is their own grand adventure, and I'm hoping to find a partner to go through mine with :')

I'm open to someone that is between 25-33, has a stable and secure career, is taller than me (I'm 5'1 so the bar is literally low lol), likes cats and traveling, and is a kind, empathetic, intelligent man who will be my bestie forever <3

Religion is very important to me. I'm not extremely strict, but I enjoy attending halaqas and volunteering at children's events at the mosque to give back to the community. I would like a man whose deen is his priority too.

Here is me: https://imgur.com/a/XaMPhyz

"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought."

🇬🇧 British man living in Italy 🇮🇹, looking for a genuine woman for a serious relationship. I’m into travelling, music, great food, good conversations and making the most of life. Looking for someone kind, fun and ready for something real. If anyone is interested send me a DM. Thanks.

I'm a giant nerd, hoping to find another giant nerd so we can nerd out together. I like games (especially TTRPGs and board games), making things, animals and scifi/horror. I like quiet nights in punctuated by long road trips with camping and hiking. I am firmly childfree. I'm a biology teacher. I'm very liberal and non-religious. I'm fairly introverted. I believe in kindness and honesty. I try to live my life according to the Oscar Wilde quote "Life is too important to be taken seriously." I'm very willing to start things long distance, but I would want to close the gap eventually.

Some less tangible things that are important: I'm not looking for "my other half". I've built a pretty good life that makes me happy and I'm hoping to find another already whole person to share it with. I want to find an LTR but that doesn't mean we have to get married tomorrow. However, if marriage is completely off the table for you, we probably wouldn't work.

What I'm looking for: Someone who can make me laugh and who laughs at my jokes. Someone who wants to share some of my hobbies but also has their own interests. Someone not conservative and not religious who values education. Someone who likes cats and isn't allergic. Someone who has stood in awe of the splendor of nature at least once. Someone who understands that if I bake you a cake it means I really like you because my love language is acts of service. Someone who can temper my wild optimism without being overly pessimistic.

If any of that sounds like something you're interested in, send me a DM. Let's get to know each other!

first things first: i love love! since getting divorced a few years ago, i’ve spent a lot of time working on myself (s/o to my therapist) and learning how i can best show up for my partner + how i want a partner to show up for me. if you want to come along for the ride, please have done some of the work yourself too. we deserve to romance the fuck out of each other in the DINKiest ways. i don’t care where you live or how old you are. that said, while physical attraction isn’t everything, im not going to pretend it doesn’t matter. be prepared to exchange photos sooner rather than later.

also im bisexual and politically left. if you support the current administration, im not the one for you :-)

without further ado…

1. we meet somewhere neither of us has been before and suggest spend the evening pretending we’re strangers in a new city - choosing a place to eat, getting a little lost, and seeing where the night takes us.

2. we go to the bookstore near my apartment (my second favorite i’ve ever visited) and wander next to each other. i won’t shut up, pointing out everything ive read and how it made me feel. eventually we separate and pick out titles for each other, hoping to impress the other.

3. we hit up the farmer’s market too early on a saturday morning. we wander between flowers and fruit, slowly assembling an improvised picnic from whatever looked beautiful.

4. i drive us to a hidden gem antique store i know while you’re dj. we both pick out tchotchkes for our spaces and you come back to mine to share a joint while we laugh at the weird shit we saw.

5. we lie on the beach like lizards in the sun, surrounded by all the best snacks and flirt each other’s faces off until it starts to get dark.

Hey there my name is Samantha! I am 5ft. I am active but also an introvert. I love to start my day with a work out, I love lifting, running, yoga and just started getting into Pilates. I also love couch/movie time or just doing projects around the house. I live on whidbey for work as a jet mechanic but originally from California. I love living in a small town with nature close by. I have a 5 year old cattle dog named Balla and she is a lot of work but I love her a lot.
I’m looking for someone age 25-40 who likes to adventure but is not too extreme, having an active hobby is important to me and an interest in the arts. Must be willing to go thrifting/estate sales/garage sales.
My favorite movies are There’s something about mary and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I love 80’s music like the Smiths and Tears for Fears but also like some indie and hardcore.

I’m 30 and live in Central California. I’m currently in a pretty active chapter of my life: going back to school, building a career in wildland fire/forestry while working on growing my contracting company on the side, and generally trying to create an interesting and purposeful life rather than just going through the motions and accumulating more stuff.
I’m definitely more outdoors-oriented than indoors, although I’m perfectly capable of disappearing into a video game or watching anime for an unreasonable number of hours. I grew up in the mountains and will always consider them home. I like hiking, trails, forestry, camping, skiing, sailing, working outside, and learning practical skills. I’m also serious about fitness and like having something physical to train toward.
On the more introverted side, I play video games (mostly Warhammer 40K and anything by Bethesda), listen to audiobooks, write, have an unreasonable number of ideas for projects (some active and some less so) at any given time, and can happily spend an evening talking about history, economics, religion, philosophy, business, or some completely uselessly fascinating piece of fictional lore. I also LOVE houseplants and have a Siamese cat, so I happily range from bidding my next project to wildland firefighting to worrying about whether a plant is getting enough indirect sunlight.
Personality-wise, I’m curious, pretty independent, sarcastic, and conversational. I like people who can joke around and don’t take themselves excessively seriously, but I also really enjoy conversations that go somewhere deeper than small talk. I’m much more interested in learning how somebody thinks than collecting a checklist of facts about them. I’m naturally trusting, to a point, and really don’t share much with anyone beyond that. 
I’m not particularly interested in forcing a relationship out of an internet introduction. I’d rather meet someone, become friends, talk regularly, do things together, and see what develops naturally. If that eventually becomes something romantic, great. If I meet someone genuinely interesting and it remains a friendship, that’s still a pretty good outcome.
As far as what I’m looking for: someone kind, intelligent, curious, reasonably active, capable of communicating directly, and comfortable having her own interests and life. You don’t need to share all of mine. In fact, I’d much rather you have things you can introduce me to.
I spent my twenties bartending, island hopping around the Caribbean, building a career as an executive administrator, and failing at being married.
I’m childfree and looking within the childfree community for the obvious reason: I want that fundamental life decision to be compatible from the start, rather than something either person expects the other to compromise on eventually or at the start. 
A few easy conversation starters if any of this sounds interesting:
Tell me about something you’re currently obsessed with learning about.
Give me your strongest unnecessarily specific opinion.
Tell me where you’d go tomorrow if someone handed you a free plane ticket.
Or just say hello. I’m not going to make you complete an application and probably won’t read your bio.

Also, my first post was deleted by mods because it didn’t “show enough effort” but I think it’s reflective of my sense of humor and felt more casual than writing an entire bio of my life someone may or may not bother to read so, here’s that as well, 
“Just looking for a friend…
…who likes house plants, hiking, and has red hair and wants to fall in love but not saying anything about it because we met under the pretense of just wanting a friend and then more or less the plot of the second half of Pride and Prejudice.”

Hello! I am divorced and getting back out there. Dating apps have not worked out well.

I suffered from PCOS and Endometriosis, so I had a total hysterectomy. I was never able to have children. I want to spend the rest of my life with that special person building a life where we enjoy our days off enjoying each other's company at home or traveling.

I am a well rounded person. I can get interested in almost any hobby, and can talk about any subject.

I am switching careers right now to better provide for myself as a single woman. The end goal is MBA from my local University. I see the end insight and it is so exciting! I love to work and stay productive, but I also enjoy lazy days as well.

I have 3 cats who I love like children. 😂😄 They are by best friends. They provide comedy on a regular basis along with many snuggles. I have automatic litter boxes, water fountains, and feeders for them. This allows me to travel when I want to.

I have been on hunting and fishing trips. I find both to be fun. I enjoy DIY home projects, gardening, and even cleaning house can be fun. I like to cook, but only when I can share with someone. Arts and crafts are alao fun. Videos games, tv, movies, going out, dancing, live music, conventions, you name it, I can have fun almost anywhere. I have been known to make my ownself laugh and the people around me.

I have a 34 foot camper that we can go camping in! If your prefer primitive camping, that is also fun!

I am not your typical hair and make up woman. I wear limited make. Mascara and lipstick is about all I wear. I don't dye my hair. I do like to get my toenails painted.

Gifts for me could be a flower you picked off the side of the road. Gifts do not need to cost money. If you went to the beach and brought back sand, that would win me over!

I am a Christian. I love God for what He has done for me. This, by no means, needs to suggest that I am a super conservative person. This means that I love all of God's creation. I love everyone, no matter who they are or how they identify. I belive everyone has a right to choose how they live their life. It is not for me to judge.

In my 20s, I lived abroad, but it was not for the military. I lived in Europe for almost 5 years. It was an experience I will cherish forever. I made life long friends there.

You do not need to live close by for us to connect. If we hit it off, I might be willing to relocate depending on where you are. I would expect that you travel to me some as I would also travel to you. Of course, this would after we think we are a good fit. We can also meet in the middle somewhere as well. 😊

I am okay dating someone younger than me and older than me. A true gentleman is a must. There has to be some level of physical attraction, but that isn't the top priority.

If any of me sounds like you would be compatible, send me a message. I would love to answer any questions you have.