▲ 4 r/cf4cf

27 [F4M] Russia, Looking for a meaningful relationship

Hello!

I'm looking for a man from Europe or North America, however, my time zone matches Europe best.

I work as an English teacher, mainly with children, and I really love what I do. Seeing my students become more confident and excited about learning English is one of the most rewarding parts of my job.

I'm childfree, don't have children and don't plan to have them.

In my free time, I like playing the harmonica. I only started learning several months ago, so I'm still very much a beginner, but I'm having a lot of fun with it. I also love gaming, especially survival and role-playing games like SCUM, Red Dead Redemption 2, The Long Dark, and similar games.

I enjoy deep conversations about life just as much as being silly together and laughing over something completely random. I believe the strongest romantic relationships grow from friendship first. I really value intellectual connection. I love having deep conversations about life, people, art, philosophy, or whatever happens to catch our attention. I enjoy watching a thought-provoking movie together and then talking about what we think it means, sharing different perspectives.

I'd probably connect best with someone around my age, roughly 25–35 years old. I'd like to meet a kind, honest, emotionally mature and intelligent man with whom we genuinely enjoy each other's company and can build something lasting together. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship. I'm open to an international long-distance relationship and would consider relocating in the future. However, I'd like to take things slowly and get to know each other naturally.

If my post resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you! Please tell me a bit about yourself rather than sending just a few words. I'd be happy to know your age, where you're from, your nationality, your interests, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

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u/275944 — 3 days ago

27 [F4M] Looking for a meaningful relationship

Hello!

I'm looking for a man from Europe or North America because I feel I connect well with people from those cultures. I'd prefer someone from Europe because of the smaller time difference, but if you're from the US, don't hesitate to message me!

A little about me:

I work as an English teacher, mainly with children, and I genuinely love what I do. I enjoy learning new teaching methods and improving my professional skills. Seeing my students become more confident and excited about learning English is one of the most rewarding parts of my job. I believe that having meaningful work is an important part of a fulfilling life, and I'm grateful to have found mine.

In my free time, I enjoy playing the harmonica. I only started learning about a month ago, so I'm still very much a beginner, but I'm having a lot of fun with it. I also love gaming, especially survival and role-playing games like SCUM, Red Dead Redemption 2, The Long Dark, and similar titles.

I'd describe myself as friendly, open-minded, curious and talkative. I value honesty, kindness and emotional maturity. I enjoy deep conversations about life just as much as being silly together and laughing over something completely random. I believe the strongest romantic relationships grow from genuine friendship first.

As for who I'm looking for, I don't have a long checklist. I'd probably connect best with someone around my age, roughly 25–35 years old. I'd like to meet a kind, honest, emotionally mature and intelligent man with whom we genuinely enjoy each other's company and can build something lasting together.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship, so I'd like to take things slowly and get to know each other naturally.

If my post resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you! Please tell me a bit about yourself rather than sending just a few words. I'd be happy to know your age, where you're from, your nationality, your interests, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

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u/275944 — 24 days ago

F27 looking for a long-term friend

Hello, everyone! I'm looking for one good friend to chat about life, maybe play video games together, and share emotions and ideas. I’d like to find a person to grow with and gradually build a deep connection. I really value people who aren't just into shallow chit-chat, but are ready to develop a real bond and go deeper. I genuinely enjoy learning about others and their inner lives, and I’m looking for someone who feels the same way — someone who values mutual curiosity and a two-way conversation.

I’m mostly focused on my work, which I love. I also like music and poetry, play a musical instrument. I like learning about people and their inner life, and I want to find someone who is also interested in other people. I'm friendly, chatty and extraverted, but I don't have offline friends since I work online. I want to find someone who I can call a friend one day.

I'm looking for someone around 25-32 years old. My timezone is GMT+4. During the week, I’m usually around in the afternoon or late in the evening, but on weekends I have more free time.

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u/275944 — 26 days ago

F27 looking for a long-term gaming buddy

Hi!

I'm looking for someone who enjoys relaxed gaming and genuine conversations. I'd love to find a long-term gaming buddy to hang out with on Discord while we play. For me, games are much more enjoyable when there's someone to share the experience with, even if we're just chatting while doing our own thing.

Right now I'm mainly playing RedM (modded Red Dead Redemption 2 roleplay), and that's the game I'd really love to share with someone. I enjoy the slower, immersive side of it: ranch work, farming, hunting, travelling, and simply living my character's life.

We don't have to do everything together. I'm perfectly happy if we're each doing our own thing while chatting on Discord, then meeting up in-game for a hunt, a fishing trip, a drink at the saloon, or just to spend some time together.

If you've never tried RedM before, that's absolutely fine! I'd be happy to show you around and explain how everything works.

SCUM (PvE only) is my second favourite game, and I'll probably come back to it at some point, but RedM is my main game right now.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys games for the experience rather than for efficiency. I prefer taking things slowly, chatting, and creating memorable moments instead of rushing to optimise everything.

My timezone is UTC+4. My schedule is fairly flexible, so if our time overlaps, I'm sure we can work something out.

If this sounds like your kind of gaming, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and your play style in your reply.

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u/275944 — 29 days ago

Looking for one or a few RedM RP friends (F 27)

Howdy, partners!

I'm looking for one or a few people to build a small RedM RP community with. I'm not looking for a group where everyone has to be together all the time or do everything as a team. I like the idea of everyone having their own character, job, and daily routine, but our characters can naturally cross paths and spend time together from time to time.

For example, we could meet in a saloon after a day's work, share stories and news, help each other out, or occasionally go hunting or fishing together. I'd love to create the kind of friendships that feel natural in the world of RedM.

Whether it's one person or a small group, I'd be happy either way. I think even one good RP friend can make the game much more enjoyable.

I'm happy to choose a server together. I already have a few servers in mind, but I'm open to suggestions if you know one that would fit this kind of RP.

I've tried meeting people in-game, but most players seem busy with their own goals. So I thought I'd try finding people who are also looking for genuine, long-term RP friendships.

I'm primarily looking for players from Europe because of the time difference. However, if you're from North America and our gaming schedules overlap, I'd be happy to play together as well.

A little about me: I enjoy slower, character-driven RP rather than constant grinding or action. I usually play as a civilian and love farming, ranch work, horses, fishing, hunting, music, and other everyday activities.

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u/275944 — 1 month ago
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FiveM or RedM for social RP?

Hi everyone!

I'm looking for an RP community where people actually enjoy talking to each other and spending time together in character. I'm looking for a slower, more social style of RP—things like neighbors chatting, coworkers hanging out after work, or people getting together at a local bar.

I've tried several RedM servers, but so far it feels like most people are focused on grinding or rushing from one task to another. Maybe I've just been unlucky.

I haven't tried FiveM yet, but I enjoy both RDR2 and GTA V.

I prefer playing as a civilian and I'm not interested in criminal RP.

For those who have played both, which community did you find more social and welcoming? Which one is better if my main goal is meeting people and building long-term RP relationships?

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u/275944 — 1 month ago

Is Wild RP really that good?

I've heard a lot about Wild RP as a serious high-quality RP server where it's quite hard to get on. Is it really that good in terms of RP quality?

I've just tried other servers and it feels like people don't really role play and don't interact with each other. So I'm thinking about Wild RP.

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u/275944 — 1 month ago

Good RedM server with farming mechanics

Hey, everyone! I'm looking for a RedM server with the following features:

A friendly and active community.

Roleplay.

A relatively high player count, so towns don't feel empty.

Farming or homesteading mechanics (growing crops, tending a small farm, or similar).

Civilian gameplay.

My ideal playstyle is living a quiet life: working, owning a small home, growing food, getting to know the local community, and spending evenings socializing in the saloon.

Does a server like this exist, or is that asking for too much in the current RedM scene?

I'd really appreciate any recommendations. Thanks!

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u/275944 — 1 month ago

Looking for people to create an RP village in a survival game

Hello everyone!

I'm looking for people who enjoy immersive roleplay to create a small village together in SCUM, a survival game.

My idea is to build a community where people have their own homes and their own stories, but also share life as neighbors. We could gather around a campfire, share stories, visit each other's homes, organize picnics, help one another, trade, celebrate small occasions, and create the kind of everyday moments that make a world feel alive.

SCUM offers surprisingly deep slice-of-life mechanics. You can cook, fish, hunt, farm, craft, repair vehicles, drive, wash your clothes, and survive in a detailed open world. There are zombies and dangerous areas too, so sometimes we might go on expeditions together before returning home to the village.

Everyone is free to roleplay the kind of character they enjoy. You might be a peaceful farmer, a hunter, a mechanic, a trader, a doctor, a soldier, or something completely different. The important part is that we all share the same village as our home and occasionally take part in community life.

You don't have to play with the group all the time. You can play solo, with one friend, or with other villagers whenever you feel like it. The village is simply a place where our stories can naturally cross.

Personally, I imagine living as a quiet farmer, spending most days taking care of my land, occasionally going into town to trade, fishing at the lake, or meeting my neighbors around the campfire in the evening. I'd love for everyone to create their own story and personality.

My goal is to build a warm, welcoming community where roleplay grows naturally through everyday life rather than constant events or scripted stories. New players are welcome. Experience with SCUM isn't required—I'll be happy to help you get started.

Voice chat isn't required. If you're more comfortable communicating through in-game text chat, that's completely fine. The goal is simply to enjoy roleplaying together in whatever way feels most comfortable for everyone.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. I'd love to hear from you!

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u/275944 — 2 months ago

Looking for people to build an RP village in a survival game

Hello everyone!

I'm looking for people who enjoy immersive roleplay to create a small village together in SCUM, a survival video game.

My idea is to build a community where people have their own homes and their own stories, but also share life as neighbors. We could gather around a campfire, share stories, visit each other's homes, organize picnics, help one another, trade, celebrate small occasions, and create the kind of everyday moments that make a world feel alive.

SCUM offers surprisingly deep slice-of-life mechanics. You can cook, fish, hunt, farm, craft, repair vehicles, drive, wash your clothes, and survive in a detailed open world. Of course, there are zombies and dangerous areas too, so sometimes we might go on expeditions together before returning home to the village.

Everyone is free to roleplay the kind of character they enjoy. You might be a peaceful farmer, a hunter, a mechanic, a trader, a doctor, a soldier, or something completely different. The important part is that we all share the same village as our home and occasionally take part in community life.

You don't have to play with the group all the time. You can play solo, with one friend, or with other villagers whenever you feel like it. The village is simply a place where our stories can naturally cross.

Personally, I imagine living as a quiet farmer, spending most days taking care of my land, occasionally going into town to trade, fishing at the lake, or meeting my neighbors around the campfire in the evening. I'd love for everyone to create their own story and personality.

My goal is to build a warm, welcoming community where roleplay grows naturally through everyday life rather than constant events or scripted stories. New players are welcome. Experience with SCUM isn't required—I'll be happy to help you get started.

Voice chat isn't required. If you're more comfortable communicating through in-game text chat, that's completely fine. The goal is simply to enjoy roleplaying together in whatever way feels most comfortable for everyone.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. I'd love to hear from you!

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u/275944 — 2 months ago

F27 looking for a SCUM PvE duo partner

Hey everyone!

I'm new to SCUM — I've got about 16 hours in the game, all of them in single-player so far. I'm looking for one person to play PvE with as a duo.

As for my playstyle, I enjoy building a small cabin in the wilderness, fishing, exploring, and looting. I'm not into PvP or hardcore gameplay — I mostly play to relax. I'm a casual player rather than a competitive one, and I prefer playing in a duo instead of a large group. I'd also like to use voice chat while playing, since I'd love to chat, share adventures, and get to know the person I'm playing with.

I'm looking for someone who is laid-back and enjoys the game for the experience rather than for efficiency or min-maxing.

My time zone is UTC+4.

This month I have quite a bit of free time, so I can sometimes play during the day and I'm often available in the evenings. In the long run, I'm mostly an evening player, especially on weekdays. On weekends, I'm usually more flexible and can often play during the day as well.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and your playstyle in your reply.

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u/275944 — 3 months ago

Need help with roof building

Trying to build an A-frame roof, but can't fill up the triangle. Could anyone explain how it works?

Thanks in advance!

u/275944 — 3 months ago