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About me : My name is Chloe and I'm looking for something serious. I prefer my men a little more mature (I'm an adult, sue me) because they're looking for the same thing. To start a life and settle down.

My hobbies and interests :

I like cooking, especially italian, mexican and asian food. But I love making anything, especially from scratch. Also a big foodie so love going to restaurants. I'm also really into baking, I usually make brownies or pies!

I tend to go running from time to time and work out a bit, to keep myself active and keep my body healthy and fit. I'm also really into nature and love almost all animals (some pesky bugs can get away from me)

About you : What I'm mainly looking for is someone that is ready to start a life. I don't really care about looks, personality is the biggest factor for me. Just be kind, passionate about stuff, caring, loyal and family-oriented, those are the main things I'm looking for. Yes, my ideal future does include having kids. If you don't want any, I'm not the person for you.

Looking for an OF? Don't have one, won't make one. The username might be confusing, but it's explained in my bio.

So anyways if you think this fits with you, shoot me a DM!

I’m 21, turning 22 soon, and I’m from the Himalayas in India, so I’ve always had a huge love for the mountains. I’m hoping to get into trekking soon and explore more of them. I love thriller shows, crime podcasts, and rom-coms, especially 2000s ones. I’m mainly here to meet new people from around the world, have good conversations, and make some friends. If you love mountains, have similar interests, or just enjoy talking about random things, feel free to say hi :)

Hi! I’m a 23 year old Latina (somewhere between 5'1" and 5'2" depending on my shoes lol) looking to connect with someone genuine, funny, and down for good conversation or a terrible round of Fall guys (yes I still play sometimes haha).

Here’s a bit about me:

I’m a computer science grad so I spend plenty of time coding/learning new things, but I try hard to balance the screen time with active stuff.

Current Hyperfixations: Thanks to my ADHD, I’m constantly cycling through hobbies, but my current favorite is hitting up workout classes (hot yoga is carrying me through the week right now). I’ve also been getting into random crafts lately!

Gaming: Big Elden Ring fan (yes, I suffer voluntarily), and I’m currently trying to learn Fortnite. If you’re willing to carry me or laugh while we both lose, you’re already ahead.

Food & Cooking: Huge fan of trying new food, local spots, and different cuisines. My cooking skills are... a work in progress, but I’m actively learning and always down for kitchen experiments.

Vibe: I will fully overdress for literally any occasion. Coffee run? Nice outfit. Grocery store? Fashion show.

What I’m looking for:

Someone (23-35-ish) who is tall, kind, funny, communicates well, and has their own passions.I really like when people have goals, since I have a lot I want to accomplish. Extra points if you like staying active, don't mind a partner who switches up hobbies every three weeks, and can hold your own in a game or a debate about where to get dinner.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me a DM! Tell me your favorite current hyperfixation, your go-to game, or the last great thing you ate.

Hey all!

I'm Bea, single bisexual female from the UK, looking to make friends and see what happens.

I'm open to chatting to any sex and I'm a bit of a nerd when it comes to gaming, books and old zombie movies.

I'm 420 friendly and would love someone to chat to for hours on end about everything and nothing.

I have Instagram and Discord, feel free to DM here too. That's me in my profile picture but I have photos upon request.

20 [F4A] #NJ - LET ME CARE FOR YOU plz okay okay okay

I'm sorry if this is offensive!

Hello there!

I am 20F from New Jersey.

I am looking to find friends or more (like a romantic partner) whether eventually in-person. Plz be between 18 and 23.

I am average build, white, and shortish, with brown eyes. Not good looking lol.

It might be fun to call, play stuff, talk about SFW and NSFW stuff (I have some preferences where I uhhh -looks both ways before mentioning- I want to peg mwahaahahahaahah. Also I want to EAtSOMEONE no no I want to uh I uh uhhhh want to drown someone inmyaffection thxyouverymuch COMEVON okay ahahahahejjjj). I would also try to share face pictures early on.

If you intend to message me, plz introduce yourself (like your age, gender, location, what you look like, and what you are looking for)! I'm sorry if I don't respond. I am not doing it to be mean :> however, I may not respond if you are above 23 or too far away).

I do not intend to be mean with the preferences, though.

I am sorry for any disrespect, I can come across as stern or disrespectful though I do not mean to.

Thank you.

Hello, I'm 18 years old and currently looking for a serious relationship I could eventually visit/get visited one day. My physical features are chubby, 165cm and brown hair/eyes.

Personality wise I'm pretty down to earth and introverted, although I and pretty goofy with my close friends :D

I mostly stay at my home so my hobbies aren't really that interesting, but I like to play videogames (Minecraft and stardew valley) and im trying to get in shape at gym.

I'd like to find anyone who likes what I like and also wants a serious relationship, with no preference for gender and around 18-21 years old, feel free to hit me up if you do!

hey, writing from mexico! i’m currently juggling two degrees (send help lol) and looking to make some genuine friends and real connections here.
a bit about me:
heavily into movies and indie music, always down to trade recommendations or talk about cinema.
big animal lover.
planning a trip to the netherlands soon!
i’m trying to practice my english and i’m also learning french and german, so if you speak any of those languages (or dutch!), that’s a huge plus. Also I would love to meet people from Brasil or chile haha
mostly looking for cool people who enjoy actual conversations, good music, and relaxed vibes. if you think we’d get along, send me a message with your favorite movie or song lately! :)

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heyyo beautiful souls I’m from Florida looking for a mate . South Florida to be exact. I love coloring, reading, documentaries, & smoking. all is welcome to reach me 💓

I’m 27F and have been talking to someone for a couple months now. Within the first week he mentioned meeting up and I said I was down for it. He was leaving for vacation soon and mentioned again that we’d make something happen before he left. Well he left and we never met up the one day we were supposed to he kinda flaked and just said if we could do a different day cause he was finishing packing. He was gone for almost a month. Said we would meet when he got back before he started work because he travels for work. Well he got back and we never met up. Then he left for work so he’s not even here to meet up. Now he’s kinda being distant going days without answering me. He follows a bunch of girls and new girls daily. Should I just accept that it isn’t going to be anything?

So I really don’t understand why the new response to not liking someone is ghosting!! Do we live in a world where no one is able to stand up for themselves and simply say, ‘I’m sorry I’m not interested’ nope we just ghost!! This is not a long rant just really frustrating that it just keeps happening !!!

Have a good day!!

I want to wish everyone good luck and hope they find someone here. I have personally retired from dating and am no longer seeking a partner. However, I wish you good luck in your quest! May you find someone you match with on this sub!

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I'm 20F from the Maldives, and I thought I'd give this a try and see where it goes. I'm hoping to meet someone genuine, build a meaningful connection, and hopefully find something long-term.

A little about me: I'm currently studying tourism management and working as well. I'm a pretty shy person at first, but once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk about almost anything. I enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people beyond the usual small talk.

I'm a huge animal lover, especially when it comes to parrots and fish. I also love motorcycles, travelling, watching movies and series, and documentaries about animals, history, and true crime. Music is a big part of my life too, and Bad Bunny is my absolute favourite!

I'd say I'm a caring, affectionate person. I appreciate the little things, whether that's someone remembering something I mentioned, checking up on me during the day, or simply making time for me. Quality time and physical affection mean a lot to me.

What am I looking for?

Someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and genuinely interested in getting to know me. I value communication, consistency, loyalty, and mutual effort. I don't expect someone to be perfect, just someone who's willing to put in the same effort I do.

I'm open to long-distance relationships because I believe distance can work when both people genuinely want something together.

I'd love to find someone I can share my random thoughts with, have late-night conversations, laugh about silly things, and eventually build something meaningful with.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message! I'd appreciate a little introduction about yourself rather than just a "hey." :)

Looking forward to seeing where this goes!

Looking for older men aka a sugar daddy. Pls don't DM me for anything else, lets just be straightforward lol

SF Bay Area, divorced, no kids, educated, well researched, empath, psychology, deep, great communicator, interesting. People, food, culture, outdoors, conversation, conspiracies, coffee, travel, MUSIC…heavy metal to EDM 🎸🪩

SAPIO love intelligence, masculinity, communication, emotional vulnerability, raw honesty, humor/wit, very open and passionate 🔥

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.

Hello

I'm tall, so I'm looking for someone who is as tall or taller than me.

I do prefer younger men, but I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who has their life together.

I'm grounded, kind, caring and intuitive. I'm youthful in my heart and spirit and don't feel my age. I want someone who can match my energy.

I don't feel my age and I giggle at silly stuff and am not PC, but I'm respectful.

I love coffee and cheese.

I love going for random drives to explore new places.

Hi, all! Anyone in Detroit free this Saturday (10/10)? See I have a somewhat fancy event to attend and my plus one just bailed. What are the odds someone on Reddit goes with me instead?

33M, architect, big plant parent, coffee shop enthusiast, and I’d say easy to talk to lol

Let’s chat and plan our Saturday!

Hey! I'm 26M from Türkiye, and I'm here hoping to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and build something meaningful with.

I'll be honest about something that probably matters quite a lot when it comes to dating me:

I'm very affectionate, caring, emotional, sensitive, and naturally quite clingy when I fall for someone.

I like closeness. I like talking throughout the day, checking in on each other, good morning and good night messages, random “I miss you” texts, long calls, sharing little things about our day, and simply knowing that there's someone special in my life who cares about me.

And when I care about someone, I really like showing it.

I'm the kind of person who will remember the little things you tell me, ask how your day went, notice when something seems wrong, and genuinely want to be there for you. I don't think affection should be something embarrassing or something you have to hide.

I also tend to get attached fairly quickly when I genuinely click with someone. I don't expect the other person to immediately feel the same way, and I don't want to rush anything. I just don't like pretending to be completely indifferent when I actually care.

There are four qualities I value especially strongly in people:

Compassion. Patience. Mercy. Honesty.

Those four probably describe the kind of person I want beside me better than any checklist could.

I'm introverted and can be a little shy or awkward at first, but once I'm comfortable with someone, I become much more talkative, playful and affectionate. I can spend hours talking about completely random things, or sit in a call with someone while we're both doing our own thing.

As for my interests, I'm a bit all over the place. 😅

I enjoy gaming, music, fantasy, history, mythology, anime, archery, nature and the outdoors. I also have a somewhat unreasonable curiosity about medieval stuff, weapons, military technology, cars and motorcycles.

Music is particularly important to me. I listen to things like post-rock, post-metal, folk/neo-folk, classical and jazz depending on my mood. I'd love having someone to exchange songs with, discover new music together, play games with, watch something with, or stay up way too late talking to.

I'm also exploring a darker/alternative aesthetic lately, but you absolutely don't need to be alternative yourself. Goth, punk, metalhead, nerd, introvert, extrovert, completely ordinary-looking person — honestly, I don't care much about the label.

I'm interested in the person, not the aesthetic.

I'm 26, 165 cm / 5'5", and I speak Turkish and English. I don't have a height requirement for women — any height is fine. If a man's height is an important requirement for you, though, we probably won't be a good match.

I'm also completely fine with exchanging recent photos once we're both comfortable. Physical attraction matters, of course, but I care much more about personality, kindness, emotional connection and the way two people treat each other.

I'm not looking for something casual or a temporary distraction.

At the same time, I'm not expecting marriage from the first conversation either.

I want a girlfriend.

Someone I can slowly get close to. Someone I can laugh with, be affectionate with, support, annoy with stupid jokes, miss when she's gone, and eventually become best friends with as well as partners.

I want something serious and long-term, but I want it to develop naturally. Let's get to know each other first. Let's see if we actually enjoy each other's company. Let's build trust. And if something beautiful grows from that, I'd like to take care of it.

Distance isn't automatically a dealbreaker for me either. If two people genuinely care about each other, I'd rather figure out the practical problems together than reject something good before it even begins.

So if you're also looking for something genuine, feel free to say hi.

And fair warning:

If I really fall for you, you're probably going to receive an unreasonable amount of affection. 😅