Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much?
So I met this girl on tinder, the first girl I've ever actually met in person from tinder, and it was tough to start texting her as she was closed off. I eventually get her to open up and we talk on Snapchat, soon to setup a date for the next day. Everything seems great with her starting off and things are a bit flirty too. The first date goes great and we both opened up about some past struggles and what we're looking for now in a relationship, not that deeply.
We seem to connect well on the second date where she came to my house for a movie because we then setup a sleep over for the next day after work...
Thing seemed to have been super positive and flirty then, having us go 'all the way' and she acknowledged she didn't think she would go that fast with me in the relationship. That said, the energy was great and positive, but we aren't even one week into seeing each other and she insinuates being exclusive and long term, saying I'll be having to pick her up next week since she drove to me today. I told her that I understand that but the conversation felt quick to fruition as we had only seen each other a few times in person ever. I could tell she was extremely put back by that and I reassured her that I liked her and wanted to try a relationship with her, but that I want to take things one step at a time when we didn't even know what we would be doing while we were hanging out next. It just overwhelmed me in the moment.
Setting that baseline to the intro to the relationship, I eventually open up to her about me feeling depressed sometimes and that I can be extremely positive and happy but sometimes I don't have the energy for things and just need to take a nap or do something alone. She completely understood but recently it felt like she used the past against me...
So it's been 2 weeks now of seeing each other and things feel like they've regressed extremely. She doesn't react to any of my flirting and I feel frustrated that she constantly dismissed conversations I try to initiate. It always feels like she's writing something completely off topic in a text when I try to connect with her. And when I try to explain to her it makes me sad and that it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, she takes it personally and things just get worse...
I guess my question is in the title but also how does attraction from each side read?
This is pretty much all of our texting today so far...I got frustrated because it's been a pattern of her only complaining about her life and ignoring my questions or conversation queues...
TL;DR: this 2 week relationship is exhausting and it feels like I'm talking to a man with the way I feel brushed off when flirting or trying to get a sense of what they wanna do...I feel like I should communicate how it makes me feel but now it's seemingly pushed them away. What's the best way to handle not feeling seen but they say they want a relationship? It's like if I hold in my emotions things are fine but if I open up they feel attacked.