Ex-situationship freaks out at me after I told her I wasn’t interested anymore.
TW— She mentions physically harming herself multiple times.
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So this happened a little over a year ago. I met this girl online, and at the time me and my current bf were polyamorous (we are monogamous now, and living together)
I met this girl and we hit it off, and I liked her, so I told my boyfriend and introduced her. Immediately, he felt something was off about her. Once I started getting the same vibes and me and my bf decided to be monogamous, I told her I wasn’t interested in pursuing a relationship with her anymore, and then neither me or my bf are comfortable with it.
Well… this was the outcome. This happened for like two weeks. I’d go to bed, and wake up to like hundreds of messages from her the next day. I ended up blocking her and talking to her friends, which they tried helping her, but she wouldn’t listen, which ended up with them straying away from her as well.
Few months later, she finds me on SPOTIFY of all things and tries to reach out again.
Real talk, I hope she gets the help she needs. She’s genuinely unstable, and I actually felt unsafe and scared.