u/CupOk4471

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I felt more confident while I was being abused

It doesn’t make sense to me. I’ve been estranged from my abusive dad for six years and the rest of my dysfunctional family for 1-2 years. At first, I felt free and empowered. But as time goes on, I feel more and more depressed, suicidal, and lonely. I’m EXTREMELY insecure. I used to be very confident in my younger years. It’s only becoming more painful and more difficult. I’ve been in trauma therapy for five years. I think maybe it’s gotten harder because I became a mom two years ago and it’s just fucking lonesome. I wish I could just have a loving and supportive family.

Anyway, can anyone relate to feeling much more confident while being abused than you do now that you’re away from the abuse?

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u/CupOk4471 — 3 days ago

Barber going to a salon!

Hey everyone, I’m starting at a new salon this week as a female barber. I am dual licensed and have my cosmo license as well but I just cut hair (no color). I’ve worked in barbershops since 2019 and am ready for a change. I’m excited but am also really nervous. Is there any advice you all would have for my specific situation? Thank you.

Also, do you all have advice for someone going from W2 to 1099?

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u/CupOk4471 — 3 days ago
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Going from W2 to 1099. Help!

Hey guys. I’m going to be moving shops soon and will be going from W2 to 1099. What do I need to know? I dissolved my LLC in the last year and am wondering if I need an LLC or S Corp (which is better?) to be a 1099 employee? I’m so good at cutting hair but so bad with this side of things. Please help.

Edit : is anyone actually able to answer my question regarding LLC/ S Corp? Thanks

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u/CupOk4471 — 13 days ago