My 28 F husband 33M doesn’t know what he wants
Back in December my husband left. Wasn't happy there said he didn't love me the same. Since then he's come around some and we've talked about working on things, usually me initiating the conversation. Well I stopped, gave up hope, then he started initiating. The problem is he brought it up and literally ghosted me the next day after saying he wanted to work on things saying he doesn't know what he wants. He has done it another time now too. I know I'm so stupid to put myself in this situation but I want us to work so bad... love is a fickle thing and I hate it. He says he is unsure of what he wants. At this point, what are my next steps? the thought of letting go hurts so bad, but so does this back and forth. Logically, what are my next steps, how can I retrain my brain?