u/Curarx

Perspective - woman believes everything is the "bare minimum"

Perspective - woman believes everything is the "bare minimum"

This has been an experience that I personally experienced in my life but it's crazy to see it vocalized like this.

What this woman is calling the bare minimum, is a man who works from home and plays video games during his work hours, but he completely provides for his partner, she doesn't have to work, he funds her hobbies and passion projects ( a rescue farm), he doesn't yell, he doesn't cheat, and they don't fight.

This is the real "it's over" to me. They have so devalued men's labor that being able to be a fully dependent adult and have whatever you want for buying is literally worth nothing to them. It's their "bare minimum." I really want to know what she brings to the table at this point if that's the bare minimum.

The sad thing is that she's not actually that unhappy. She says in her post that she is happy and grateful for everything that she has that she just wishes she could spend more quality time with her husband. And this person commented on it and it's amazing how other women will try to sabotage her life by trying to make them always demand more.

u/Curarx — 1 day ago