u/Curious-Rich9374

About ten days ago, my girlfriend and I had intimate physical contact, but we did not have actual sexual intercourse. I did try to insert my penis into her vagina once and she grabbed it and did insert it just a bit and but she resisted because it was painful and uncomfortable, so I stopped immediately and did not continue. There was no confirmed penetration, and she is still a virgin. Before that, I ejaculated inside my underwear while I was still clothed, and later, when we were both more exposed, I ejaculated naked on her stomach only. The semen was not intentionally ejaculated inside or directly onto her vaginal area. Afterward, she cleaned herself immediately using a cloth. Since then, she has become worried because her period is currently around three days late. This has made both of us anxious and scared about the possibility of pregnancy, even though we did not have proper intercourse. She has also recently been going to the gym and exercising more, which may have affected her menstrual cycle. In addition to that, she has been under emotional stress and anxiety because of fear and overthinking about whether she could be pregnant. We understand that pregnancy generally happens when sperm enters the vagina and reaches the cervix, usually through penetration and ejaculation inside. In our case, there was no confirmed penetration, and ejaculation happened mainly in my underwear and later on her stomach. Although there was some genital contact while attempting penetration, it did not fully happen because she stopped me. We are trying to understand whether pregnancy is realistically possible in this situation. We have learned that stress, hormonal changes, exercise, changes in routine, anxiety, sleep disturbances, and gym activity can also delay periods by several days. Her delayed period has therefore caused panic and fear even though the overall situation appears to be low risk. We are considering taking a home pregnancy test after at least fourteen days from the incident or about one week after the missed period to get reassurance and certainty. At the moment, we are trying to stay calm and avoid taking any unnecessary or unsafe medication without knowing whether she is actually pregnant. We understand that random abortion pills or emergency contraceptive medications should not be taken carelessly, especially because emergency contraception is most effective only within a few days after intercourse and because improper use of medication can cause health complications. Based on the events that occurred, including the absence of confirmed penetration, no ejaculation inside the vagina, immediate cleaning afterward, and ejaculation mainly on the stomach, the possibility of pregnancy appears to be very low, though we still want reassurance through proper testing rather than panic and assumptions.