u/Curious-Tune6051

I mostly mean without a partner? I (24F)feel like a lot of the times when I choose to get off im sleepy or stressed or I wanna wind down. But sometimes, I’d just be watching tv and get.. like a command from my brain saying “pull out your vibrator”. Over the past few years I have noticed I am not the most in touch with my body and this year I’m trying to work on understanding bodily cues better, so just thought I’d ask, what bodily sensations or cues tell you to flick the bean/ pound one out?