u/CuriousDoofusFR2

so kanina na brought up yung topic ng “HILING” and syempre nagkwkwentuhan na mga kapatid and may kasamang manggagag* doon, topic is 15 year old na binhi pinaparinggan ng 25 year old na mwa sa paghihiling and shit, tangina, sabi ko kanina normal lang naman ganyang na manggagawa sa iglesia tas sinermonan ako ampota, natamaan ka ata? yung kamanggagawa mo nga sa lokal inaano kapatid kong binhi, mga pedophile tangina nyo

so kanina lang to, sumamba ako and ang init na sobra kasi hind naka-on lahat ng electric fan and ceiling fan kasi nga mag-ooverload daw, e makulit mga ibang maytungkulin kaya binuksan mga e-fan.

ang resulta nawalan ng ano, idk the electrical term, basta.
may special training ba mga manggagawa/ministro if something unusual happens while they are officiating a worship service?

lmao, wala pa sa tono ‘yung tenor na mang-aawit. pasigaw pa magtenor at nginunguya lyrics ng awit, HAHAHA parang movie na low budget

for context, may gbf ako sa lokal namin, kalihim sya ng ilaw at maytungkulin sa binhi. everytime na magkasama kami, nag-uusap lang mind you, not touching each other, not being clingy or flirty in any way, ini-issue kami. tinutukso kami ng ibang mga kalihim, and people give us dirty looks. I’m sick of it, palagi na lang.

now me wanting to be a good leader sa mga binhi na sakop ko, I want to spend time with them individually, each one of them. this includes girls. (for context, I have a pretty high rank/office in the binhi org and I’d rather have my sakops in the church/church compound instead of being influenced by gang members or addicts [my sakops mostly live in squatter areas and such] so they’d be better off inside the church) I want to spend time with then all, not just in the means of being a good leader—but also as a friend to each one of them, and I’m afraid that people will make issues about me and my sakops, especially those of the opposite gender. this is so tiring and exhausting. nakakapikon.

for even more context my parents are significant in our locale and are pretty high ranking and syempre sa iglesia, hindi maiiwasan ang inggit, kaya people are hawking me dow like eagles, watching my every move. it doesn’t help that my parents transferred me to a school close to the kapilya. like walking distance lang, mga 5 minute walk if you’re a slow walker. ang daming ma-iissue sa iglesia.

to all the pimo mang-aawits out there, tinanggal daw tong drill na ito kasi may nag-ulat na parang pagod na pagod na mga maytungkulin sa pagtupad, kasi nga naman “hay nako”

well totoo naman, pagod na pagod naman na sila, HAHAHAHA just wanted to confirm this sa mga mang-aawit natin dito sa lokal ng reddit

okay, so I just got confirmation and info on the RM of a locale here in Bacoor being thrown away (assigned somewhere else rural) because he was reported by an HD for being too thrifty with the church funds (mind you, these funds are from the THs) anyway, their locale is super dark at night aswell. they only turn on lights when there are WS and other activities.
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RM - Resident Minister
HD - Head Deacon
TH - Tanging Handugan (idrk the english translation, sorry.)
WS - Worship Service(s)

so this was the lesson about the sugo since it’s sugo month now (May 2 and 3)

the lesson was paired with a somewhat dyslexic worker (of course he isn’t actually dyslexic, he just stutters a lot even when not reading…)
Lesson time was around 58 mins for the locale I was at and I was kinda getting sleepy so I would close my eyes then and there… but then I observed the choir, a third of them were sleeping… and another weren’t even listening—or at least it seemed like they weren’t listening… Also, the congregation was super quiet, like you could here only the worker preaching, his breathing even… if you regularly attend WS, that isn’t a normal thing, a person or two would be coughing their asses out and some person would be blowing their nose, etc. but in this WS? it was awfully quiet—the silence was deafening. it’s almost like everybody’s asleep? also the worker gave a shoutout to those whose minds were sailing during WS, those who were not paying attention, and those who were sleeping, so basically this confirmed my suspicion about ppl being asleep and not listening.

This is kind of a vent or somewhat of a vent, so for context, I had an RS with this girl last year may to december, but was already silent quitting around november. so 7 months of time wasted, but since it’s Sugo month now—here’s the tea…

So here in Cavite, May “Sugo Month”
We “confessed” to each other, she also kissed me first and fast forward a few months, we were making out and such, which is crazy for Binhis and looking back, that was my mistake even though at the time I was only 15 and she was nearly nearly nearly 18. I lowkey got groomed… I also had my first time with her and me sharing this is kinda making me vunerable…

Random day on September
She wasn’t replying to my chats?
WTH?
(for context, AGAIN. She is always online no matter what time of the day and so)
So little me here is WORRIED, ASF.
but then, I saw in one of her friend’s story, she was with her EX.
later on the day around nighttime, she “broke” up with me
which honestly ruined my upcoming field trip that time (I shouldn’t have ruined my field trip for her, disgusting.)
but I still loved her, so I chased and chased (dumb of me if you ask me but it was my first RS) we got back after though and we would secretly chat bc the ministraw/worker made us break up.

Fast forward a month or two, I was sick, like my body was super weak because of my sickness, but the she was seen with her EX, hanging out, hugging, WITH PICS BTW, while poor me was suffering with my illness. I was devastated, what did I do wrong? where did we go wrong? was I too clingy? was I too much? that were the questions a was asking myself… later on I moved on, quite easily. it still hurt, but I was kinda silent quitting that time, so I let a few weeks pass then I got into talking with this girl and then I think my EX’s ego was hurt cuz she started chasing me after she found out, so I really ended things with both of them from then on.

Fast forward to now, 2026, I got into a new actual healthy RS, she ruined it so much because she started f’ing issues about me, dragged in my new girl, and yeah we’re kind of ruined now.

is this how the “kapatiran” should be?
also she tried to manipulate my sibling to turn against me, and for awhile, she did. f’ing manipulating egotistic person…
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Binhi - Members under 18

so this was last week’s midweek pagsamba, nakakatulog ako nun and biglang sumigaw yung ministraw or manggagancho, “MGA MAGULANG, HINDI NATIN ALAM, BAKA TAYONG MGA MAGULANG AY WALANG KAMALAYMALAY, SA TINGIN NATIN ANG TAHITAHIMIK LANG NG ANAK NATIN, PERO SA ONLINE SITES AY LUMALABAN NA PALA SA PAMAMAHALA, BANTAYAN NATIN SILA!!!!” ofc this is paraphrasing kasi hindi ko na masyadong maalala kung anong mga exact words na sinabi sa yapping session, anyways, galit na galit tono nung nagteteksto kaya nagising ako tas medyo kinabahan, alam ko kasing reddit ang tinutukoy niya.

I just received the tea a couple of days ago and this is crazy as hell. also the Binhi President’s Father is a high ranking officer in our locale, and the rumor EXPLODED, many know about it now and I was one of the first few to know through the network of Binhis (I’m a bit close to some Binhi officers)

So the Binhi Officer was at the Binhi President’s house when this happened, idk the exact person who walked in on them “making out” but that person must’ve been in their circle and said something because this wouldn’t have gotten out otherwise.

Of course, for my safety, I won’t mention direct officers and details—these are just general information stuff. This is insane though…
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Binhi - Members under 18

Hi guys it’s CuriousDoofusFR(2) I used to be a little bit active in this subreddit but then deleted my account and posts because I had a feeling Central was able to track me down but I’m back, so here’s the story…

So a bit awhile ago, my locale called for a meeting of all kapisanans (Binhi¹,Kadiwa²,and Buklod ³) and I counted less than 30 that attended, I don’t even know the topic, I was inside the compound but didn’t attend, as well as like 10 more others that didn’t attend despite being inside the compound and wearing what is considered formal in INC standards.

This was so funny to me and deep inside natatawa ako nung araw na iyon. It’s crazy because our locale is pretty significant here in Cavite…

Binhi¹ - Members under 18

Kadiwa² - Members 18 and above that are not yet married

Buklod ³ - Members that are married