u/Current_Tax4903

Just as calling teenagers impulsive and irresponsible isn’t hate. Neither is calling out women on their negative traits.

If you love someone, you’re honest with them. Not telling them the truth isn’t kindness and fearing their reaction isn’t being considerate. Only the truth can help them.

So believing men want you to suffer for their benefit because they state you’re inferior to them is inconclusive.

If we’re all in this together no one benefits from disenfranchising the other. Thus honest criticism should be respected as mutually beneficial, not tarnished.

Even if the criticism turns out to be true that isn’t at all a verdict on how we should respond to this truth.

If you’re categorically scared of any truth that speaks against your position and thus deny any productive dialogue on that truth, you are the one disenfranchising and turning “we’re all in this together” into “it’s a zero sum game”.

Some women know men have two pots, those women they sleep with and those they’d get in a relationship with. Some women don’t see a difference, and just believe the men who keep bedding them, but won’t take the next step have some sought of commitment issues. Regardless of which subset you belong to, how do you know/determine that a man is really interested in you as a person and not just around for the sex?

This is purely a hypothetical. There is absolutely no pressure from your husband for you to be at home all day, that’s just how the hypothetical is constructed. Children are optional with a husband, without you’d have no family. You get to have the career you have now or your dream career. If you had to choose either or, which would you choose and why?

Men realise many dating truths that just aren’t ever spoken in politically correct settings. But above all I subsequently tend to realise that women just don’t care for speaking truth.

Often they will clearly state their motivations, as in attempting to regulate the narrative in order to minimise perceived “negative” effects.

Other times they will speak such blatant untruths that it just makes me question whether women justify every thought in their heads with “the outcome justifies the means” rather than seeing the means themselves as the outcome any ethical person would strive for.

Even bluepill men don’t have the audacity to deny blatant dating differences in men and women and will admit nuance even if still generally believing in overall equality. But feminist women seem to find no claim too outrageous, as to not give an inch to their enemies. Somehow they always claim to be the exception and that somehow this exception is common enough to make any statement on dating women ridiculous, oppressive and outright evil.