I met my partner/dom on Feeld - don't give up if that's what you want, too
I'm a 36(F) sub (bedroom only, not 24/7). l was single for a couple of years, used Feeld basically the entire time, and met a lot of really lovely play partners that way. The most useful things I learned to weed out people who are less experienced, unwilling to learn, more vanilla than me, or unsafe are to set boundaries early and often and be clear about what I want without mentioning specific sex acts. Setting boundaries early about when I'd like to actually have sex, or not, removes people who treat the website like a paid sex work service (nothing wrong with that, but I'm not a sex worker). And so does being vague about the kinds of submission I like in my profile. I also never sent nudes in advance for that reason. I used Fet to vet people, especially by checking their affiliation groups.
I generally had positive experiences on Feeld. Without Feeld I don't think I ever would have met my partner, let alone known he's also into kink. The platform gave us a way to be upfront about our kink interests in a way that vanilla platforms, like Hinge, don't. Despite its many flaws I'm glad it's out there - and it's a lot better than going on my zillionth date with vanilla people who I'd never be sexually compatible with. Totally valid to take dating breaks, but don't give up if you hope for a committed, kinky relationship.