Am I wrong for staying with my husband?
Please no one leave any rude comments I am really going through it right now. So one night my husband decides to tell me a secret he has been keeping from me for about 3 to four years ago. He had a one night stand with not only one but two girls when he went to the bar while we were engaged I was also pregnant at the time. During this time he was struggling with his alcoholism. He is now 2 years sober. He tells me now while our three year old son is away at his grandparents. His reasoning behind not telling me until now was because it always felt like it wasn’t a good time to tell me because of all the other stuff we have been through together with family and having to separate from toxic family members. And he was worried I would leave him. I am Christian and so is he. He is getting closer to god as well. But I can’t help but feel betrayed and hurt or question if I should leave. Because if he is able to hide this for 4 years what the hell else could he lie about? Then of course if he will cheat again even though he says he won’t. I just don’t know what to do. I never wanted a broken family. My parents divorced when I was a child and I really don’t want to put my child through that. I do love him but now I don’t trust him at all.