My 30F GF wants to "be able to do whatever she wants". I 31M dont see a relationship that way
Shes independent and likes her freedom.
We both like to have fun and in the past have done drugs and like/liked partying. A few times a year, nothing crazy.
Now, her friends became single etc. And shes out all the time. From a couple times a year to couple times a month and heavy drugs and raves.
If i dont schedule time with her in advance, shes probably got a rave planned or partying.
She just wants to be free. To go on solo holidays, party, drink, drugs, whatever she wants, but come home to me.
I want to build a life, future, kids. Be healthy, make good decisions. With some fun on the side.
Am I the selfish one for having these expectations of her behaviour?
The future mother of my children.
I know you cant control what anyone does but this is becoming intolerable.
Am I stupid to wait it out and hope its a phase she will grow out of?