u/Cute_Helicopter_5031

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Busco amistades (esto podría ser un tanto específico)

Más específicamente amigos cercanos, o a largo plazo. Soy mayor de edad, así que agradecería que tuvieras entre 18 y no más de 25 años.

He buscado en otras redes, pero me encuentro con el siguiente problema: Nadie tiene interés en poner de su parte. Capaz solo están muy aburridos, o la atención parece divertida, no sé

Sobre mí: No me considero una persona tan divertida, pero creo que podría ser un buen amigo. Sé apoyar a otros, escuchar y soy bastante detallista. Si bien no se me da bien iniciar conversaciones, cada nueva experiencia me sirve para mejorar y aprender de mis errores.

Mis gustos: Principalmente el anime/manga. Últimamente he estado algo aburrido así que no he mirado tanto, pero he visto muchos de los más populares (y no tanto). También dibujo, me gustan los juegos de ritmo, juego genshin y hsr (o jugaba, a veces me aburro de ello y los dejo unos meses)

Igualmente dríamos compartir gustos musicales, siempre estoy abierto a descubrir cosas piola

No hago vc, puede darse si es a largo plazo pero idk

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u/Cute_Helicopter_5031 — 20 hours ago

Does this still count as aromantic?

When I was a teenager, I had a friend who was a couple of years older than me. We met in elementary school, lost touch for a while, and then reconnected later.

I was pretty lonely at the time, so I got really attached to him. He was one of the few people I spent time with, and I liked being around him. Sometimes he was physically affectionate, like hugging me or messing with my hair, which could feel a bit awkward, but I still liked the attention.

For a long time, I thought that if I enjoyed someone’s company, got excited to see them, and wanted to know more about them, it automatically meant I had a crush on them.

Sometimes I would wonder what it would be like if things were more than friendship, but whenever I took that idea seriously, it didn’t really feel right. More than anything, I was just curious about who he really was as a person.

As we got older, things became less unclear, and the idea of anything romantic just felt disgusting to me. We drifted apart over time, and eventually stopped seeing each other.

Honestly, I’m not even sure what I actually wanted back then. Maybe part of me didn’t want to admit it could be something more “normal” or romantic, because I thought that was kind of silly or I didn’t want to see others in that way. Or maybe I just tend to overthink things and try to rationalize feelings that don’t need a clear explanation. I don’t really know. Either way, thanks for reading this far—I’d honestly be interested in hearing other perspectives!

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u/Cute_Helicopter_5031 — 2 days ago