Unsure and confused
Burner account moment. So I (24M) am in a monogamous relationship with my partner (22FtM). But he recently decided to start doing T, as he wants to be male. I'm absolutely happy for him and fully support him, but as that completely shuts out any and all of our sex life, I'm starting to just feel off. When we started dating, we were very like minded in that our relationship would be just us. As I've thought about it more, the more I think to a more open / poly relationship. But I've been quite clear that I don't just go out and floozy with other women, and all my relationships are built on familiarity and trust. After all, we knew each other for 5 years before I even asked him out. So I'm scared that if I just say to him "I want to add someone to our relationship so Im not sexually deprived" he's just gonna be so upset with me. Ik that it's best to just ask and see what he says, but it's just too much.