Ghosted after 3 weeks of intensity. Is this a crash? Should I reach out?
Hi everyone, looking for some insight.
I’ve known this guy for a few years. He has BP, ADHD, and anxiety (usually medicated). Recently, we went on a 5-day work trip. He forgot his meds, and we were drinking daily with very little sleep.
During the trip, he was glued to me, super intense, and we hooked up. When we got back, the high energy continued. We texted constantly, and he admitted he was getting really attached to me.
A week ago, I texted him about a plan to meet up (which he had suggested). He replied instantly and enthusiastically, asked a question, I answered right away... and now it’s been 7 days of total radio silence.
This whole timeline, from the trip until last week, lasted about 3 weeks.
I’m realizing the intensity was likely a hypomanic episode triggered by no meds, alcohol, and sleep deprivation, and now he hit a wall.
Should I reach out to check on him, or just give him space? This sudden shift is rough. Helpppp