u/DHVerveer

▲ 39 r/grindr

Partner recently online and nearby at our traveled to location

He claims he never reinstalled. It's an utter lie, correct? Is there any conceivable way this could possibly happen?

In the past he asked me to have Grindr installed because he wanted traffic to his instagram. I said no, he ended up doing it anyway. I laid some boundaries and tried to heal the trust. I thought I was making good progress.

Today we traveled out of state and I saw what I am pretty sure was a grindr notification. I brought it up to him, and he told me he never did. While I stepped away I reinstalled the app and logged in, and took a screenshot. I showed him the screenshot of his profile which has his photo on it and "online 1 hour ago". It had the airplane symbol showing he had traveled.

He also said last night while driving through a rich neighborhood that he was curious who was on grindr around there.

He said it's possible he deactivated his account and didn't delete it.

But I can't believe that it'd be possible for him to even appear on the grid after about a week. He's allegedly not had it for longer than that. Even a deactivated account, doesn't that immediately remove you from the grid?

He's lying to me, right? Please tell me it's possible I'm wrong.

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u/DHVerveer — 3 days ago