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meeting up with an older guy tomorrow, any tips?

im into older guys and this man's 40 and im 18 and im feeling kinda nervous since its my first time meeting up with someone online

i will be on call with my friend and will be sharing my location, and we came up with a word where he will call the cops if said

i dont know if im just being paranoid, but any tips are welcome

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u/Flaky_Drop6437 — 12 hours ago
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Levels of horny I definitely can't even imagine 🤣

That's a whole ass utility bill for hopefully finding Mr Right💀

u/nuttyboh — 16 hours ago
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Face pic or no?

Is a face pic in profile preferred by most users browsing or is it better to leave it out? Curious what most like better? The anonymity to it or no?

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u/gleefulcats — 1 day ago
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Why have they started mixing distance? 🤦🏻‍♂️

I am getting so sick of selecting a profile within the first dozen on the grid only to see that they’re an hour’s drive away. Truly, grindr, every decision you make lately seems to be designed to make your app as unpleasant and unusable as possible. What the actual f???

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u/Neededcorrections — 1 day ago
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Verify real or fake account

I apologize I am currently talking to a person name empress emma ts on the app. We moved to telegram and I was hoping if anyone knows if she is legit or not. Her info goes to her x page and right now if I want to be a sub I have to pay $105 and I want to.make sure she is legit on not scamming me

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u/jayfan154 — 1 day ago
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How often yall meet with someone after a couple mintues of texting

Heyy, just came back after doing a "DL" meetup after a few mintues of texting which ended up being a scam I refushed to be a victim of lol. Honestly looking back I guess before I've met up with people like this maybe twice or thrice and we ended up having sex. Hell I lost my virginity to someone I talked to for like 10 minutes.

Obviously Grindr is used for quick hookups a good amt of the time but I think most people agree that it's best to have at least a little bitnof a convo before meeting up that is more than "Hey (cute them hot/cute), thank you, are you down for rn, yes, blah blah here's my addy) . Also just for safety too (I was definitely a bit naueous driving over to their place rn).

Anyway enough with the blabber. How often yall do a meetup where it's only a couple messages, maybe pics,and then an address within a short time period, espicially with DL folks, and how often does it result in flaking

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u/PestoOverflow_808 — 1 day ago
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not by any means kink-shaming but…….cringe

At least he’s drug-free…

u/bmick00 — 1 day ago
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New AI boyfriend eh?

Grindr, what are we doing here? lol

I would just hate to see people remove human connection from their lives for this

u/OkWallabyDrive03 — 2 days ago
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Chat disappear suddenly.

I just chat with few person and the chat suddenly missing. Am I get blocked or apps glitch? The conversation was just fine and gone all of a sudden. 😥

Their profile turns like below. No way I could reach the person again..

u/Slight-Walrus-7934 — 2 days ago
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Back on Grindr. Am I being too much?

I am trying to be assertive without seeming too dismissive. It's a hard balance to strike but I've learned that brutal authenticity is a tightrope.

u/joloatkinson — 3 days ago
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Bye guys I'm leaving the app for good this time

If I ever tempt myself in coming back I'm going to ban my account

Year of self improvement, un-whoring myself, getting buff, making friends and getting away from this fucked app

Good luck everyone I somewhat enjoyed being a whore but I need to work on going through shit without sex

u/Imacharmer3141 — 2 days ago
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Why do so many guys in these dating apps have huge cocks?

Grindr sniffies

Its like 20-30% of these guys on these sites have a 7+ inch cock and most sources indicate only 1% of men have a 7+ jncher

And just about every black top i message has a 6+ incher easily

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u/First_Push_7927 — 3 days ago
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Hooking up while traveling -plan ahead or just wing it?

Seems if I scope out the guys online at my destination and reach out nothing much comes of it.

Though sometimes nothing works out.

Pic included so you see what I'm working with.

u/Wikudwayz — 2 days ago
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Simply switching my Grindr from 'vers' to 'top' has resulted in an explosion (pun intended) in my sex life

I'm 32, 6' tall, and a lean/somewhat muscular 190 pounds (still building muscles but enjoying the quick newbie gains). I'm too old to be a twink, but not quite jacked enough yet to be a jock.

I used to be strictly a bottom, but I was the quintessential twink with a bubble butt, so finding the bears/daddies I craved (still do) to fuck me wasn't really a problem.

As I get older, I've become more vers. I enjoy topping the twink/femboy type which is something that never appealed to me before. That used to be my competition, not what I hunted. I decided to switch Grindr from vers to top because I don't hunt bears/daddies on the app anymore. It's way more efficient to go to Spa Excess and just get eaten alive by them.

Once I changed my profile from vers to top, it was like opening the floodgates. A lot of flakes, but I'm literally fucking 4-5 different guys each week who do everything I want (i.e. wear what I want, every kinky thing I ask for without hesitation, every position, etc.). I've heard that there's a top/bottom imbalance, but this is wild!

PSA to all the tops out there: Indicate top rather than vers and enjoy the deluge!

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u/Hot_Ingenuity4648 — 3 days ago