Revenge spells and spiritual backlash (the rule of three)
I am very new to witchcraft and I know this sounds horrible but I have this boiling urge inside of me to cast a revenge spell on someone (a man) who did me wrong. He is also in a position of power and authority, which puts me in a weaker position. I need to get this urge of revenge out of my way and I need guidance on how to restore my leverage and power over this person.
So I have some questions for you who are so much more experienced than me.
Does the rule of three apply to revenge spells? (Rule of three: The negative spell returns to the caster three times over) If so, is there any way to protect myself/my loved ones from this backlash?
Are dark spells/curses generally accepted within the witchcraft community or is this something to refrain from?