Entering the bdsm world as a virgin
(Throwaway account for personal reasons)
Hello everyone, I (25 male) am a complete virgin. I've always been interested in the world of BDSM, but I never took the time to get into it during my studies (nor to get in a relationship).
Now that I have a job, I finally have more time to explore this side of myself. I already have a FetLife account and recently went to my first munch, which was a really nice experience (even if I got some strange looks when I mentioned my virginity (they asked fyi)). I’m actually planning to attend a second one next week.
On the other hand, I got the impression that to find a partner, you need experience, but to gain experience, you need a partner. It feels like a bit of a catch-22 to me.
Has anyone here been in a similar situation and/or has some advice for a complete beginner (both in bdsm and relationship) ?
Thanks in advance