u/Dailia28

When you’re sitting alone at the bar (on the rich side of town) and a man asks you to join him at his table. He could be sitting with a few friends or just him. Do you join? Do you chat a bit first? Or do you stay put where you are because you’re the prize?

I don’t like joining because it signals to others who might be watching that you’ve chosen him when there might be a better target. But if you don’t join, you don’t get to network and meet his other friends. Also, I feel like joining gives off my desperate vibes.
What’s worked for you? Any strategy or tips? Sprinkle sprinkle

Shera always says the man must like you times ten. But it’s not that easy! Let alone get a roster full of them.

How many of these old, ugly, rich, times 10 men are we meeting when freestyling?

Ladies, we just keep levelling up and focusing on ourselves until these men come over right?

I don’t think I’ve met a single man who likes me times 10.

What are some responses to men who:

1. Tell others that you’re their girlfriend/wife/getting married, when you just met. This annoys me when a guy claims you in front of others - especially other potentials.

2. Make sexual comments to you. Do you walk away because it’s disrespect? Start talking about money?

I was at a networking event. Do any of these men even like me 10x? Who would you focus your attention on, if any?
Give it to me straight and any strategy please ladies. Thank you

1. 80yo CEO. Complimented my looks. Gave me his card and took my number but only when I asked “will I see you again?”
2. 50 yo ugly banker. I can tell he likes me and I’m his type. He complimented my looks, bragged a lot and asked what I needed in life but he complained about women he’s dated asking him for rent money.
3. Friend of a friend 50yo entrepreneur. I thought he was interested because of prolonged eye contact, making sure I was taken care of, and him breaking the physical touch barrier a bunch of times but he left without saying bye. My friend he was feeling ill.
4. 30yo crypto bro was actually the nicest and most down to earth. Our chat was cut short because of other people.

I told this man that I couldn’t see him this week because I promised myself I wouldn’t do anything fun until I had enough for a new phone. Mine is cracked. He doesn’t offer to help me. If I see him tomorrow as he suggested, itwill be my 5th time seeing him. I know he wants to escalate physically.
I can’t go back on my word now right? Part of me thinks it will be easier to get something from him if I see him since we haven’t met in a month due to schedules. Someone slap some sense into me. Or give me some strategy.
Edit: forgot to add He’s at least 20 years older than me.

What hurts a man’s ego more - leaving him on read or not reading the message at all?
He didn’t help me when I needed his help and only inquired if I was okay two days later.
Not reading = don’t care. Leaving on read = might be mad at him. Welcome your thoughts and experiences.