u/Dainty-Swan

I just started dating someone new, and things are going great so far.

However, we had sex for the first time, and it hurt me, even with a slow pace and comfortable position (missionary). I'm the tiny kind and he is both tall and big down there.

That never happened to me. I've had a few sexual partners, and never had such an issue. It could be painful with some positions like doggy or if the person was going too fast/rough. But that's not the case here.

I'm worried cause we tried another time and same issue. I don't know if it's possible our bodies are just incompatible?

Does someone have advice other than lube? Cause I don't think wetness is the issue.