Suspect BF Porn Addiction
I’ve been picking up clues that my BF might be a PA. His language is often sexual, and he speaks with sexual innuendo quite frequently…titties, mentions “butt stuff“ often, says he’s an ass man, I mentioned getting a facial and he said “I’ll give you a facial,” when talking about a movie he was watching he said “it’s probably not you’re type of movie, you’re more into hardcore porn, he jokes about getting dirty and me being perverted, and much more.
He’s gotten pretty rough during a BJ. He also has a difficult time staying hard during sex and while giving me oral despite saying he loves it and that it’s his favorite thing to do.
He often “so tired” and in bed a lot. It’s not very social, and seems to generally not be motivated other than the things that he absolutely has to do. There are other health and medications that could also affect this
I recently got a “suggested” person on Insta. It showed him as a mutual friend. It’s a new (month old) sexy lady (AI) account that has her Fanvue link in bio. I did a little digging and he follows a few others that have links to OF…one of them being 20+ years younger than him. He seems pretty chronically online, too
There’s more, but that’s probably good for now. I guess I’m just looking for thoughts and suppprt.