Nmom filed 2 CPO’s against me, now that I have an NCO she wants contact.
My nmom lived in the rental house my husband and I owned (she moved in against our will 12 years ago, is a long sorted story). To protect ourselves financially we were forced to evict her, which happened early this year. She filed for a Civil Protective Order against us immediately after, twice, and both were dismissed. We had both been no contact with her for a year so she had nothing, it was purely retaliation on her part.
She ended up getting arrested for trespassing on the property she was evicted from, and because it was deemed a domestic issue I was granted a No Contact Order for a year. Which feels like a blessing. (I had good reasons to fear more retaliation and manipulation).
She was distraught over this and said in court she wanted to “make amends”. She was the one who tried to file a CPO against me, twice!! Now she wants to make amends?!? She just can’t stand she isn’t in control of her access to me anymore.
I’m not sure what I’m seeking here, maybe just to vent. It sucks that I can’t believe her motivations are genuine. It sucks having learned what an intensely selfish person she is when I didn’t realize this before.