i’m living at my boyfriend’s house and i feel like his mom is constantly watching/judging me
i recently moved into my boyfriend’s family home temporarily to save money, and while everyone has been “nice” to me technically, i constantly feel uncomfortable around his mom, every little thing makes me feel judged… how late i wake up, how much i eat, how often i go out, how long i shower, whether i help enough around the house, even just existing in shared spaces sometimes
she doesn’t directly say rude things most of the time, but there are little comments and looks that make me feel super self-conscious all the time. the worst part is i can’t tell if i’m genuinely overthinking it because i’m living in someone else’s home, or if she actually doesn’t like having me there. i’ve talked to my boyfriend about it a little, but he mostly says “that’s just how she is.” what would you do in this situation? try harder to ignore it, bring it up more seriously with him, or start figuring out how to move out sooner?